Creative Writing

 Hey Outer Banks Fans, Getting an apology is always great, but it depends on how you get apologised to. A person can be the bigger person and it's all fine and dandy, but my question to you fellow readers is what's the point if an apology is used to get over a situation quickly instead of being open/honest and sincere? My answer would be that there's no point. You have to feel deep understanding and care for the person who's saying sorry. Sorry is a huge word. It's a word that has to be turned into a huge deal, otherwise it's just non-existent. You NEED to feel like a person is putting real time and effort into making you feel better about yourself. You can be a strong independent person and still go toe to toe with a lot of different types of people that aren't your cup of tea, and it's not because they call you out on the complex parts of your outer persona that's a work in progress, it could be a number of things such as not seeing eye-to-eye on a...

 Hey Anger from Inside Out 1 and 2, We all have these inner demons and triggers that make us turn into that Disney character the Beast from Beauty and the Beast. We try to not be the spoiled prince who didn't know how to love and be loved in return until a random enchantress magics us into a terrible beast full of ugliness. The volatile volcanic anger wrecks the whole world. It takes away the confidence and fearless bravado that others' try so hard to build. All those insecurities that are buried deep under the layers of who we are get stirred up in another person when they can't handle the brutal truths about how they talk down to a person. We poke the beast with our words of blurted out thought and the eye of the storm unleashes and you've walked into unchartered territory. It's hard to not break apart in the sweat of anxiety when you've dipped your toe in the whirlpool of interference, it'll come back to bite you in the ass. Having a backbone and fighting...

 Hey John Wick fans, This is a complex subject. It can make you feel strongly about it. Being an independent person is many things apart from doing housework. It can be education and work. Achieving a small task can make you independent. There's not one specific definition. I'm not telling y'all to open a dictionary, but this isn't worth making anyone feel less than they are. It can cause the doomed conflict that you're not even looking for. It can make a person triggered to the point of anxiety about who they are as a person, whether they're adequate or not. It can mean the difference of being the hero or villain in a person's storyline. Also, it can being up the thin line between love and dislike. I think you can dislike a person, but not hate them with a passion. Yeah, a person can become prickly when it comes to independence, when you're quite an independent person without knowing how to do most aspects of housework. Travelling by yourself can be a s...

 Hey fellow bookworms, Offense VS defense. There's a thin line written in the sand between them, and when you offend a person there's all kinds of verbal blowback that you're not ready for. Opinions and ideas can offend a person. The bare-faced ugly brutal truths that you don't wanna hear can affect another person when you use them on them. It's like a ping pong match where there's a winner and a loser. There's the written word on a page that can offend a  person to the literal bare-knuckled punch to the gut verbal word that can piss a person off. Once you've set foot over an invisible bridge of things you've said or done there's no going back if a person is in the deep well of offended. Then you've gotta deal with the crossfire of texts and voice notes from the person that has been offended if you're living in the digital age. You Boomer's out there don't need to worry about that last part. When shit goes sideways there's alw...

 Hey fellow Lincoln Lawyer fans, Letting your inner Dragon Warrior out can be the greatest thing ever. Having backbone leads you to finding your inner boss side, the assertive bold fearless side that you hide underneath the layers of thick steel armour that no one can break through. You have to be able to find that little spark of fire that allows you to become a force to be reckoned with. It's not like the inner beast that comes out that's a different thing entirely. A question for y'all to think about is this- does having a backbone mean the same thing as being straight up with a person? Yes and no. It can just make you be able to have your voice out in the open a lot more. Being able to put a person in their place if you don't like what they have to say in a difficult conversation might be something that is the definition of having backbone, if you look in a dictionary. It's not about being overly tough as nails most of the time. It's more about being assert...

 Hi fellow readers who ar3e so awesome, I've had a lot of positive feedback from y'all who have read these little blogs full of advice and guidance. Hope you'll all vote and comment respectfully. This blog isn't about anyone personally in life that I know personally. I would like to say this blog is a space where advice and guidance is given on experience's that are faced in everyday life in order for you to relate and connect to a topic that I write about. I'd appreciate it if y'all think of this as a safe space to read on and give confidence boosting feedback on how I can improve this blog. I don't think this space is for negative feedback that knocks my confidence as a writer, however it's okay if there's critical feedback that I will take on board to change my style of writing if anyone has concerns about it. Also I don't wish to offend anyone who reads it. That's not my intention it's to give people a chance to feel some type of ...

 Hi OMITB fans, Using the gift of the gab is hard when there's a billion and one things on the mind. Spilling everything out in the open that is so tightly packed in the vault you call the inner workings of the mind can make or break you. I wouldn't think it's a chore more or less it's just difficult to get things off your chest cuz you knowingly and unknowingly might dig a trench of trouble that leads to a network of problematic tunnels that you might not be able to tackle unless you have the sturdy backbone to fight back with to have the ball in your court in the middle of heart to hearts. Or it could be one-sided where a person could let your vent about everything that is plaguing you, and they just listen until they can give you a fountain of advice that is better than any quote that you can read on this 'space age thing called the internet.' That's a line from the movie franchise Step Up.  Sometimes you might think it's better to keep your mouth shu...

 Hey Raptors, Tight chests. Hearts beating a mile a minute trying to win a race slamming against your rib cage until they're about to burst out of our chest walls. Palms and entire bodies drenched in sweat. like you've been left in a steaming hot room or a dry oasis for a long time. Then come the waves of frustrated tears that don't seem to stop they drench your face like rain streaked across a window sliding down the glass. You can't get the words out of your clogged diaphragm to say 'THIS is too much, Back off.' All you can see are the alarm bells in your head ringing loudly 'WARNING: DANGER. Yet your mind is trapped in a box of blind terror and panic and you feel like you're underwater cuz your lungs are on fire. It's like this live wire has been set off inside the body and you wanna run from the thing that's dragging you into the abyss of darkened panic. The line cat got your tongue kind of applies here. It's hard to implement all the tec...

 Hey Guys and Girls, It's a very confidence sinking thing to get boomed at. You feel like your entire face is burning like a lit flame on a candle. It's got a name which is called embarrassment or shame. You feel like there's an elephant in the room, but it's just you getting told about all the things that aren't' right with you. It shatters all that positive buzz in your veins that makes you a hyperactive bubbly overconfident person filled with happiness. You wish the ground would open up and swallow you whole cuz your whole body has erupted into flames of embarrassment cuz you don't fit in to the shoes of robotic perfection that a person has left behind for you to fill, which isn't fair to you cuz it puts pressure on your shoulders that then causes the breathlessness of white hot panic that fills your lungs until you're drowning in the deep ocean of stress and disbelief in yourself as a human being that is good enough in the eyes of others when you...

 Hey huge imaginations, It's a sad, poignant thing for you to not see the person you call your day 1 everyday. Not being able to talk to them all the time is a bleak thing. They're there for you any time of the day and will lend you a listening ear if you have any problems ginormous or tiny. If you have some solid beef with anyone they'll be there to give you some next-level out of this world advice about the things you wouldn't tell anyone else in this world. They're the ones who you can bare your dark soul to without any judgement, and when they're not around cuz they're moved to a different country to do bigger and better things you miss them cuz they know the real you. Not the one you hide behind with thick layers of armour or the version of you that hides behind the tallest walls covered in thick vines of ivy. The ones who have your back no matter what. They are the ones you can be real with. Even if it's just one person or a group of people. They...

 Hey Dudes and Dudettes, The brain is a messed up organ. It creates situations where you say the most random things without putting a lid of self-control on it. This can get you into sticky situations. It puts you in the trenches of trouble/allowing you to dip your toe in the quicksand of trouble, until you're neck deep in the belly of the beast of ticking time bombs of anger that puts a volcano erupting to shame. It doesn't matter to a person whether your medical condition affects the way you're wired to think if someone has antagonised you, it's like a reflex mechanism telling you to fight back and hit a few nerves until that person snaps like an emotional rubber band. I mean sometimes you can say the randomest comments without filtering it through your 'grey matter,' which will make a person storm off like a disgruntled toddler. I know some cool little people who are channelling their inner Braveheart as we speak. They're unafraid to tell you the brutal t...

 Hey ice kings and queens,  From the vast expanse of greenery to the sights that rock your world it's the cleanest country with people who have hearts of gold. Flying more than 10 hrs to get there including a stopover in the city that holds amazing memories for me. Istanbul. From the stunning mosques to the malls that can make  a shopaholic go crazy at the cheap prices to the night markets that can make you lose your mind. The food is mouthwatering, but it's the coconut water and fruit juices that bring a smile to your face. The heat makes you forget about your billion and one issues you have to face on a daily basis. The safest country I've seen. It'd give the Mafia a run for it's money with the tight security outside apartment complexes. The malls that my family members liked were called MyTown, TRX, and KLCC. The best way to get around is by using an app called Grab. It's like another version of uber. Staying in an air B and B was really fun. It was like a ho...

 Hey Fellow Marvel Universe Fans, This is something I'm not too sure about, but when a situation happens you need to be able to have time to  process everything on your own terms. You can have plenty of time to stew over a certain issue for however long it takes to reach some sense of normality. You might be thought of as an anomaly or a rare species of human that hasn't been discovered yet cuz everything might be in your head and you can be a crazy middle-class Asian. You're not crazy. You're a mixed bag of anxiety and a mountain of worry weighing your down until you explode like a grenade. I think it's perfectly the right amount of okay to not completely get over something too quickly. That's me though, other people just get over something like The Flash. Anyway, getting over something and yourself is hard when you don't always receive the hand of apology when you really need it. Getting over something is hard if a traumatic situation comes into play it...