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BEING IN THE PRESENCE OF A BEAST

 Hey Anger from Inside Out 1 and 2, We all have these inner demons and triggers that make us turn into that Disney character the Beast from Beauty and the Beast. We try to not be the spoiled prince who didn't know how to love and be loved in return until a random enchantress magics us into a terrible beast full of ugliness. The volatile volcanic anger wrecks the whole world. It takes away the confidence and fearless bravado that others' try so hard to build. All those insecurities that are buried deep under the layers of who we are get stirred up in another person when they can't handle the brutal truths about how they talk down to a person. We poke the beast with our words of blurted out thought and the eye of the storm unleashes and you've walked into unchartered territory. It's hard to not break apart in the sweat of anxiety when you've dipped your toe in the whirlpool of interference, it'll come back to bite you in the ass. Having a backbone and fighting...

INDEPENDENCE IN MANY WAYS

 Hey John Wick fans, This is a complex subject. It can make you feel strongly about it. Being an independent person is many things apart from doing housework. It can be education and work. Achieving a small task can make you independent. There's not one specific definition. I'm not telling y'all to open a dictionary, but this isn't worth making anyone feel less than they are. It can cause the doomed conflict that you're not even looking for. It can make a person triggered to the point of anxiety about who they are as a person, whether they're adequate or not. It can mean the difference of being the hero or villain in a person's storyline. Also, it can being up the thin line between love and dislike. I think you can dislike a person, but not hate them with a passion. Yeah, a person can become prickly when it comes to independence, when you're quite an independent person without knowing how to do most aspects of housework. Travelling by yourself can be a s...

OFFENDING A PERSON

 Hey fellow bookworms, Offense VS defense. There's a thin line written in the sand between them, and when you offend a person there's all kinds of verbal blowback that you're not ready for. Opinions and ideas can offend a person. The bare-faced ugly brutal truths that you don't wanna hear can affect another person when you use them on them. It's like a ping pong match where there's a winner and a loser. There's the written word on a page that can offend a  person to the literal bare-knuckled punch to the gut verbal word that can piss a person off. Once you've set foot over an invisible bridge of things you've said or done there's no going back if a person is in the deep well of offended. Then you've gotta deal with the crossfire of texts and voice notes from the person that has been offended if you're living in the digital age. You Boomer's out there don't need to worry about that last part. When shit goes sideways there's alw...