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BACKBONE

 Hey fellow Lincoln Lawyer fans, Letting your inner Dragon Warrior out can be the greatest thing ever. Having backbone leads you to finding your inner boss side, the assertive bold fearless side that you hide underneath the layers of thick steel armour that no one can break through. You have to be able to find that little spark of fire that allows you to become a force to be reckoned with. It's not like the inner beast that comes out that's a different thing entirely. A question for y'all to think about is this- does having a backbone mean the same thing as being straight up with a person? Yes and no. It can just make you be able to have your voice out in the open a lot more. Being able to put a person in their place if you don't like what they have to say in a difficult conversation might be something that is the definition of having backbone, if you look in a dictionary. It's not about being overly tough as nails most of the time. It's more about being assert...

WRITER'S NOTE ABOUT THE BLOG

 Hi fellow readers who ar3e so awesome, I've had a lot of positive feedback from y'all who have read these little blogs full of advice and guidance. Hope you'll all vote and comment respectfully. This blog isn't about anyone personally in life that I know personally. I would like to say this blog is a space where advice and guidance is given on experience's that are faced in everyday life in order for you to relate and connect to a topic that I write about. I'd appreciate it if y'all think of this as a safe space to read on and give confidence boosting feedback on how I can improve this blog. I don't think this space is for negative feedback that knocks my confidence as a writer, however it's okay if there's critical feedback that I will take on board to change my style of writing if anyone has concerns about it. Also I don't wish to offend anyone who reads it. That's not my intention it's to give people a chance to feel some type of ...

TALKING ABOUT EVERYTHING ON THE MIND

 Hi OMITB fans, Using the gift of the gab is hard when there's a billion and one things on the mind. Spilling everything out in the open that is so tightly packed in the vault you call the inner workings of the mind can make or break you. I wouldn't think it's a chore more or less it's just difficult to get things off your chest cuz you knowingly and unknowingly might dig a trench of trouble that leads to a network of problematic tunnels that you might not be able to tackle unless you have the sturdy backbone to fight back with to have the ball in your court in the middle of heart to hearts. Or it could be one-sided where a person could let your vent about everything that is plaguing you, and they just listen until they can give you a fountain of advice that is better than any quote that you can read on this 'space age thing called the internet.' That's a line from the movie franchise Step Up.  Sometimes you might think it's better to keep your mouth shu...

PANIC ATTACKS

 Hey Raptors, Tight chests. Hearts beating a mile a minute trying to win a race slamming against your rib cage until they're about to burst out of our chest walls. Palms and entire bodies drenched in sweat. like you've been left in a steaming hot room or a dry oasis for a long time. Then come the waves of frustrated tears that don't seem to stop they drench your face like rain streaked across a window sliding down the glass. You can't get the words out of your clogged diaphragm to say 'THIS is too much, Back off.' All you can see are the alarm bells in your head ringing loudly 'WARNING: DANGER. Yet your mind is trapped in a box of blind terror and panic and you feel like you're underwater cuz your lungs are on fire. It's like this live wire has been set off inside the body and you wanna run from the thing that's dragging you into the abyss of darkened panic. The line cat got your tongue kind of applies here. It's hard to implement all the tec...

BEING BOOMED AT

 Hey Guys and Girls, It's a very confidence sinking thing to get boomed at. You feel like your entire face is burning like a lit flame on a candle. It's got a name which is called embarrassment or shame. You feel like there's an elephant in the room, but it's just you getting told about all the things that aren't' right with you. It shatters all that positive buzz in your veins that makes you a hyperactive bubbly overconfident person filled with happiness. You wish the ground would open up and swallow you whole cuz your whole body has erupted into flames of embarrassment cuz you don't fit in to the shoes of robotic perfection that a person has left behind for you to fill, which isn't fair to you cuz it puts pressure on your shoulders that then causes the breathlessness of white hot panic that fills your lungs until you're drowning in the deep ocean of stress and disbelief in yourself as a human being that is good enough in the eyes of others when you...

DAY ONE'S MOVING ON TO BIGGER BETTER THINGS

 Hey huge imaginations, It's a sad, poignant thing for you to not see the person you call your day 1 everyday. Not being able to talk to them all the time is a bleak thing. They're there for you any time of the day and will lend you a listening ear if you have any problems ginormous or tiny. If you have some solid beef with anyone they'll be there to give you some next-level out of this world advice about the things you wouldn't tell anyone else in this world. They're the ones who you can bare your dark soul to without any judgement, and when they're not around cuz they're moved to a different country to do bigger and better things you miss them cuz they know the real you. Not the one you hide behind with thick layers of armour or the version of you that hides behind the tallest walls covered in thick vines of ivy. The ones who have your back no matter what. They are the ones you can be real with. Even if it's just one person or a group of people. They...