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YOUR DAY ONE'S NOT BACKING YOU UP WHEN SOMEONE SAYS YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO CHAT

 Hi Binge-watchers, Crazy shit happens like this so many times. It turns you into a puddle of sadness or non-existent water like Wade in the Disney Movie Elemental . People need to form their own opinions about you as a person rather than agreeing with someone else about how you interact with someone. This experience strips you of your confidence and chucks it out of the window. It flushes your self-esteem out of your system and down the drain. Your day one could be anyone a friend, sibling or bro in law/sis-in-law. It shakes you to your core until you don't know how to function around that person and be comfortable being who you are in front of them with all your layers stripped back until you're the real you, A.K.A your best unfiltered self that you hid from the rest of the world. When you're in a situation where your day one doesn't have your back one hundred percent of the time in sticky situations that make you dip a toe in the whirlpool of lecturing 101, then you...

BEING DIAGNOSED WITH DISABILITIES FROM LOVED ONES- FEELING LIKE THE FREAK

 Hey Chicas and Chicos, Don't get me wrong. I love people with disabilities and every disability out there, but doesn't mean I want them all at the moment. I have a lot on my plate. Anyway it's a daunting thing if you thought one moment you're completely fine and normal, then the next you do something so crazy that you're seen as an anomaly, the freak of nature. Your whole world comes crashing down around you and it makes you think about why you let your walls covered in ivy come down to let people in that you thought you could trust a thousand percent to then tell you that something about you is odd if you're a particular person like myself. You take pride in who you are as a person and when someone tells you they think there's something wrong with you, it shatters your high confidence and self-esteem to the point where you overthink the simplest of things. It tips the scales of negative emotion in your favour. Being picked apart piece by piece like a brick...

WHIPLASHED BY TEENAGE ATTITUDE

 Hi Awesome Readers,  'This shakes your confidence to the core. It makes you unsure of yourself on a whole new level. Five seconds ago, I was in this impossible position and it felt like the ground opens you up and swallows you whole. It's like your body has been set on fire and the flames are engulfing you from the inside out. Just stating an opinion to a teen can give you scarring just cuz they go to college and think they're smart, they haven't been through the stresses of university even if you do it from home you're still doing the same thing as your peers. You're still working your ass off to get the grades to graduate. Okay, I'm gonna stop rambling now and give y'all some awe inspiring advice. Grab those fluffy pillows, throw blankets, put on your favourite pair of loungewear/PJ's/hoodies/shirts, grab some soup and garlic bread, and listen loud and crystal clear: 'Don't let it faze you when you get hit with the lashing of attitude when...