BEING SWORN AT BY SOMEONE

 IT'S A HORRIBLE FEELING WHEN YOU'VE TOLD SOMEONE SOMETHING NICELY AND THEY JUST SNAP AND SWEAR AT YOU. IT'S NOT ON AT ALL! IT'S DISGUSTING BEHAVIOUR WHY WOULD SOMEONE DO THAT TO THEIR OWN SIBLING WHEN THEY WERE JUST DELIVERING THEM A MESSAGE FROM THE PARENTALS? WHY DO PEOPLE HAVE TO ALWAYS SHOOT THE MESSENGER? ALSO THEY DON'T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT WHEN YOU REPORT IT TO THEM )THEM BEING THE PARENTALS). AND NO ONE SHOUTS AT THAT PERSON AND THEN THEY GET AWAY WITH IT BUT THAT'S NOT GONNA HAPPEN. NOT ON MY WATCH. OK I'VE BEEN RANTING FOR LIKE FIVE MINS NOW SO I'M GONNA START GIVING YOU GUYS SOME MIND-BOGGLING ADVICE SO SIT BACK AND RELAX AGAINST THOSE PILLOWS AND GRAB THAT JAR OF NUTELLA AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'IF NO ONE BELIEVES YOU WHEN YOU REPORT IT THEN GO TO ANOTHER PERSON CUZ THEY MIGHT BE ABLE TO SORT THE SITUATION OUT FOR YOU. IT HURTS WHEN SOMEONE IS THAT HARSH WITH YOU WHEN YOU'RE TELLING THEM SOMETHING REALLY NICELY THREE TIMES. DON'T YOU DARE THINK IT'S YOUR FAULT THAT THEY SWORE AT YOU CUZ OTHER PEOPLE THINK THAT YOU WERE ANNOYING THAT PERSON IT'S NOT YOUR PROBLEM THAT SOME PEOPLE ARE REALLY STUBBORN AND DON'T LISTEN ESPECIALLY IF THEY'RE YOUNGER THAN YOU'  I GUESS MOST OF US CAN RELATE TO THIS BUT IF IT DOES HAPPEN TO YOU DON'T HESITATE TO DEAL WITH IT EVEN IF SOMEONE TELLS THAT YOU SWORE FIRST WHEN YOU DIDN'T. THEY SHOULD VERIFY ALL THE FACTS BEFORE THEY TELL YOU THAT YOU'RE WRONG. PEOPLE SHOULDN'T TALK IF THEY DON'T HAVE ALL THE EVIDENCE FIRST IT JUST CHEESES YOU OFF SINCE THEY MIGHT NOT HAVE YOUR BACK WHEN YOU'VE TOLD THEM SOMETHING WITH 100 PERCENT TRANSPARENCY AND HONESTY BUT IT'S OKAY WHEN THEY GO BEHIND YOUR BACK AND TALK ABOUT YOU OR OTHERS. WELL I HATE TO BREAK IT TO Y'ALL BUT IT'S NOT OK TO TALK ABOUT SOMEONE BEHIND THEIR BACK WHETHER THEY'RE A GOOD OR BAD PERSON. ANYWAY LET'S GET BACK TO THE SUBJECT AT HAND  RIGHT NOW. IT DOESN'T MAKE A PERSON HARD OR COOL IF THEY SWEAR AT SOMEONE ELSE IT'S JUST DOWNRIGHT DEGRADING BECAUSE YOU FEE LIKE THE DIRT THAT SOMEONE'S STEPPED ON AND THEN THEY'VE WIPED THAT DIRT OFF ON THE FLOOR. ANYWAY I'M GONNA STOP RAMBLING NOW AND GIVE Y'ALL SOME MORE INSPIRIATIONAL ADVICE SO GRAB THOSE LATTES/MOCHAS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'WHEN SOMEONE SWEARS AT YOU DON'T GET VEXED AND USE VIOLENCE TOWARDS THEM JUST STAY COOL CALM AND COLLECTED CUZ ONCE YOU ANTAGONIZE THEM SO THEY'LL CUSS YOU OUT EVEN MORE JUST GO TO AN ADULT AND TELL THEM INSTEAD OF TAKING MATTERS INTO YOUR OWN HANDS CUZ THINGS WILL GET MESSY IF YOU DON'T. ALSO CONFISCATE THEIR GADGETS IT'LL MAKE THEM THINK TWICE ABOUT MESSING WITH YOU AGAIN' OK THAT WAS A HEAVY CHUNK OF ADVICE BUT SOME PEOPLE CAN GET ANNOYED EASILY CUZ THEY'RE LOST IN THE WORLD OF GAMING OR SOMETHING ELSE BUT IT'S STILL NOT AN EXCUSE TO SWEAR AT OTHER PEOPLE THAT'S MESSED UP. I KNOW SOMETIMES I'LL GET A BIT TOO PASSIONATE AND USE THE OCCASIONAL BAD WORD IN THESE CHAPTERS BUT I'M JUST TRYING TO RELATE THE SUBJECT I'M WRITING ABOUT TO YOU GUYS. BUT IT'S STILL NOT OKAY. SOME PEOPLE WILL SAY SWEARING IS A BIG NO-NO BUT SOMETIMES IT JUST COMES OUT WHEN PEOPLE ARE VENTING BUT YOU SHOULD NEVER SWEAR AT ANOTHER PERSON BECAUSE IT AFFECTS THEM DEEPLY ESPECIALLY IF IT'S YOUR OWN FLESH AND BLOOD MEANING YOUR SIBLING AND ONCE IT HAPPENS THERE'S NO COMING BACK FROM IT. ANYWAY I'M GONNA STOP RANTING AND GIVE Y'ALL SOME AWESOME ADVICE SO GRAB THOSE CAPRI-SUNS, SIT BACK AND RELAX AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS SHOOTING THE MESSENGER CUZ THEY DON'T WANNA LISTEN TO THE MESSAGE AND IF THEY'RE SWITCHING OFF WHEN YOU'RE TRYING TO GIVE THEM THE MESSAGE YOU'VE BEEN GIVEN TO TELL THEM AND THEY BLOW UP IN YOUR FACE IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT SO DON'T FEEL LIKE YOU'RE A CRAPPY PERSON OR YOU MESSED UP AND YOU SHOULD RECORD THEM IN THE MOMENT IF PEOPLE DON'T BELIEVE YOU WHEN ALL HELL BREAKS LOOSE' OOH MINDS HAVE BEEN BLOWN! IT'S A HUGE CHUNK OF HEAVINESS AND YOU DON'T WANNA EGG A PERSON ON UNTIL THEY EXPLODE IN YOUR FACE LIKE A GRENADE AND ONCE THAT HAPPENS YOU SHOULDN'T ADD FUEL TO THE FIRE SO YOU SHOULDN'T SAY MUCH UNTIL LATER ON WHEN THE TENSION BETWEEN YOU AND THE PERSON DIES DOWN. BUT IT'S STILL NOT ALRIGHT FOR A PERSON TO CUSS AT YOU WHEN YOU'VE TOLD THEM SOMETHING NICELY AND THEY'RE BUSY GAMING AND THEY JUST WANNA CARRY ON AND THEY THINK YOU'RE BUZZING AROUND THEM LIKE AN ANNOYING FLY AND THEN THEY SNAP LIKE AN EMOTIONAL ELASTIC BAND AND THAT BREAKS YOUR HEART INTO A MILLION SHARDS OF GLASS BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T MEAN TO UPSET THEM. ANYWAY I'VE RAMBLED FOR TOO LONG SO I'M GONNA LAY DOWN SOME AWE-INSPIRING ADVICE SO GRAB THOSE BLANKETS AND PILLOWS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX AND GRAB THOSE BREADCRUMBED CHICKEN WINGS AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'YOU SHOULD WALK AWAY BEFORE THE PERSON HAS A CHANCE TO SWEAR AT YOU. YOU SHOULDN'T BOTHER ANOTHER PERSON ABOUT IT IF THEY THINK YOU WER THE ONE WHO SWORE FIRST BECAUSE THAT MIGHT NOT BE THE REAL STORY AS THERE'S ALWAYS TWO OR MORE SIDES OF A STORY. YOU SHOULD ALWAYS RELY ON YOUR SIBLINGS CUZ THEY'LL BE ABLE TO DEAL WITH ANOTHER SIBLING WHO'S WRONGED YOU AND THEY'LL HAVE A FEW WORDS WITH THEM UNTIL THE SITUATION HAS BEEN SORTED OUT AND THEY'LL ALWAYS BE ABLE TO HAVE YOUR BACK NO MATTER WHAT'  OOH THIS IS DEEEEEEEEPPPPPPPPPPPP  RIGHT? SOMETIMES WALKING AWAY FROM A SITUATION OR A CONVERSATION IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO SO YOU DON'T GET STRESSED OUT. TRUST ME I'VE DONE IT A FEW TIMES AND IT'S OKAY IF YOU DON'T GET INTO TROUBLE FOR DOING IT. YOU SHOULDN'T GIVE PEOPLE A CHANCE TO PUT YOUR DOWN OR STAB YOU IN THE BACK WITH THESE WEAPONS CALLED WORDS BECAUSE IT'LL MAKE YOU WEAK AND YOU NEED TO MAKE A STATEMENT IN THIS MESSED UP WORLD AND FIGHT BACK WITH THAT SPARK OF DEFIANCE AND DETERMINATION CUZ IT'LL GET YOU THROUGH THOSE TOUGH TIMES IN LIFE ESPECIALLY WHEN THINGS GET YOU DOWN IN THE DUMPS. ANYWAY I'M GONNA STOP RANTING ON AND ON AND LEAVE Y'ALL WITH ONE LAST LITTLE NUGGET OF ADVICE SO SIT BACK AND RELAX AGAINST THOSE PILLOWS AND GRAB THOSE NOODLE SNACKS AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'YOU HAVE TO PUT ON YOUR BEST POKER FACE ON WHEN PEOPLE PUSH YOU OVER THE EDGE AND TREAT YOU LIKE CRAP SO THEY CAN'T SEE HOW MUCH IT'S AFFECTING YOU ON A PHYSICAL, MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL LEVEL AND THEY'LL NEVER BE ABLE TO READ YOU LIKE A BOOK BECAUSE IT'LL BE SUPER DUPER HARD TO SEE THROUGH YOU. YOU SHOULDN'T GIVE PEOPLE A CHANCE TO STAB THE RED HOT POKER OF PAIN IN YOUR BODY AND LET THEM GET AWAY WITH IT. YOU HAVE TO TAKE SOME ACTION AND MAKE SURE THEY GET WAHT'S COMING TO THEM CUZ WHAT COMES AROUND GOES AROUND' OOH THAT'S SOME PURE BRILLIANCE THAT YOU GUYS CAN CHEW ON BECAUSE NEXT TIME SOMEONE GETS UP IN YOUR GRILL YOU'RE NOT GONNA TOLERATE IT AND YOU'RE GONNA BE ABLE TO STAND YOUR GROUND AND LOOK UNFAZED EVEN THOUGH YOU'RE FEELING SHOCKED AND HURT AT THE SAME TIME ON AN INTERNAL LEVEL. ANYWAY I'VE RAMBLED ON FOR WAY TOO LONG NOW SO I'M GONNA LEAVE YOU GUYS TO THINK ABOUT EVERYTHING THAT I'VE TALKED/RANTED ABOUT IN THIS SPACE SO I'M GONNA SIGN OFF NOW

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