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MAKING A PERSON FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE/AWKWARD AROUND YOU

 Hey Team McDreamy VS Team McSteamy Fans, This is an unintentional thing that you can do, you'll apologise for it a billion times, even if you were kept in the dark and got told a line that you had no context to go on. It makes you lie awake in the dark while you're counting sheep/staring up at mood lighting; while you're questioning why a person has character bashed you so much that you're questioning your goodness, and why you're being painted as a shitty human in the eyes of a person who you admire and look up to. You're left feeling crushed to the depths of your psyche, then you reveal all the cracks in the carefully crafted cement you've built to guard your high ceilinged tower of confidence and self-esteem, as it crumbles and turns into dust at your feet. It slips through your hands like sand slipping through your fingers. There's this cold gripping fear of anxiety, panic and cold sweat that drips down your neck to drench your whole body in the mes...

NEW LIFE IN THE WORLD

 Hey awesome Readers, It's the start of a wonderful chapter if you're weeks old. Having a new little person is crazy cuz you're holding this little fragile tiny human in your arms and they've just opened their eyes for a few days to see all the possibilities of the world that could happen. They are innocent and haven't got the attitude of a human who can give you a run for your money. You see how much attention a little human needs. It's mad to think they've not seen the twists and turns this life has to offer. Yes we're in the era of technology, but they don't know about screen time and all that yet, they're just sleeping, pooping, vomiting, and being cute and cool as cucumbers. Yes the kid can be red as a tomato, but still adorable. They have time to dig their own trenches of mischief and trouble from here to no-man's-land. Then comes the crying that crushes your brain if you're not a huge fan of loud noises. Plus you gotta  watch the l...

DRAMATIC

 Hey Grey's Anatomy fans, Drama kings and queens are made in every human, you just gotta learn to channel it into confidence. Being able to rebuild your tower of confidence from the ashes and rubble like a phoenix rising from the flames of nothingness is a serious feat of brilliance. After digging trenches of trouble that lead you in the deepest holes of quicksand can make this fortress of confidence break, crumble, shatter, and turn invisible until it's on the backburner lurking in the shadows. You're too cautious to raise your loud roaring lioness voice cuz you'll have seconds in the sand-timer of fate to figure out which fork in the road of destiny you wanna follow. Creating new footsteps in the sand is a risky move, but living life on the edge for some people is life with some spice right? I'll stop rambling now, and give y'all some awesome advice, which will make you mind-boggled. Sit back, and relax against those fluffy blankets, and pillows. Slide into yo...

AMBUSHED/RUCKUS

 Hey Awesome People. It's like a war thing getting ambushed but with words that hit you like arrows to the chest. You have to be on the Down-Low about it though. It strips away the tower of confidence that you've spent so long building, which turns it into rubble. You wanna use the Miyagi Do way of defense through your words, but it doesn't always work out in the way you're expecting right? It affects you differently, while you're questioning everything that makes you self-assured about yourself as a human. Then you have to see all the cracks that are forming on your carefully crafted armour that is falling apart cuz you haven't fortified it's borders of self-esteem and the tightening of your chest walls when it comes to anxieties about who you are and what you have or wanna accomplish in life to reach certain goals about yourself as a person. Do you crawl back into your protective shell, or burst out like larva and stand out in a crowd while raising your vo...

TRIPPING UP AND GETTING INJURED

 Hey The Bear Fans, This is a traumatic experience for anyone even a person who has the full 20-20 vision. Yes having a cane is supposed to stop you from tumbling and toppling over, but the cracks in the pavements are lethal. It takes away all the careful patching up of confidence that you've slowly built back up from the ground, literally from nothingness. Then the waterfall of sadness and fear cripples you to the point where you freeze up and become stiff like a statue. It's a huge deal overcoming these fears and anxieties about blacking out or not knowing what happened to you. It can even be an absence or something seizure like to make you trip. Then the grazed knees and swollen ankles come into play while you're uncomfortable while relaxing on your sofa. It's a scary thing to have to experience. Okay I'll stop rambling and give y'all some jaw-dropping, mind-blowing advice. Sit back and relax against those pillows and blankets that are so fluffy and quilted. ...

SHRIMP AND CO AND CHOCOBERRY

 Hey Shadow and Bone Fans, Last week I went and had gourmet seafood. The prawns were so scrumptious. I really enjoyed the extra spicy prawns that make your sinuses open. I had so many. The garlic butter sauce melted in the mouth. The chips were salty and to die for. I had this dynamite prawn platter with a white sauce and it was amazing. The strawberry mocktail was refreshing and cooled me down due to the scorching British heatwave. This was a five star experience. This was exquisite dining in my humble opinion. I  spent a wonderful time with family members that I haven't seen for a while since they are spread across the globe. We had some great laughs and jokes. Then we took a walk up the road to a dessert place called Choccobeery. I looked on a tablet and ordered a hot fudge brownie with ice cream. It was so delicious and chocolatey. I gobbled it all up within seconds. I had a really great time out on that day. Vote. Comment. Share. Enjoy.

ON DEFENSE/SIGHING

 Hey awesome The Next Step fans, Being on defense isn't a good look in other people's eyes. This is the number 1 way to dig your trench from England to no-man's-land. Sighing is the way to go to relieve your stress and pent up anxiety, it's a great technique to calm down through letting your breath go, but it can land you deep in the swirling whirlpool of trouble that you attract like a moth to a flame. Cliche analogy much? Yeah, but letting your inner teen out can be a cover for keeping your guard up and not letting anyone barrel through it and smash all your defensive bravado to the ground, until you're left vulnerable and open to getting punched in the gut, by so many words that you don't even know how to handle while all the conflict comes flying at you like a ton of bricks. Standing up for yourself/advocating on behalf of yourself to appear confident and have high self-esteem isn't gonna work when you're being ambushed left right and centre by peopl...