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THE SECRETKEEPER'S VAULT

Hi Mario Kart Obsessed Racers,  You'd think a vault holds valuable things like diamonds, or gold, even stacks of cash (A.K.A dinero). Being a confidante and keeping people's secrets and locking them down on the inside like a vault keeps all your documents such as papers and passports safe is a burden that takes a toll, but when people don't trust you to keep the secrets locked tightly in the vault then the real issues start. People being wary of you to keep all their truths and worries hidden on the inside aren't worth your time yet you still feel like you owe them the hand of trust and will go to the greatest of lengths not to smash it into a billion shards of glass that cut deep on an emotional level. You show them that you can be given the olive branch of trust and they still don't believe that you can keep your mouth shut, then that's not a YOU problem. It's a THEM problem. The key to being a successful initiate of the secret-keeper's vault is to emb...

YOUR DAY ONE'S NOT BACKING YOU UP WHEN SOMEONE SAYS YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO CHAT

 Hi Binge-watchers, Crazy shit happens like this so many times. It turns you into a puddle of sadness or non-existent water like Wade in the Disney Movie Elemental . People need to form their own opinions about you as a person rather than agreeing with someone else about how you interact with someone. This experience strips you of your confidence and chucks it out of the window. It flushes your self-esteem out of your system and down the drain. Your day one could be anyone a friend, sibling or bro in law/sis-in-law. It shakes you to your core until you don't know how to function around that person and be comfortable being who you are in front of them with all your layers stripped back until you're the real you, A.K.A your best unfiltered self that you hid from the rest of the world. When you're in a situation where your day one doesn't have your back one hundred percent of the time in sticky situations that make you dip a toe in the whirlpool of lecturing 101, then you...

BEING DIAGNOSED WITH DISABILITIES FROM LOVED ONES- FEELING LIKE THE FREAK

 Hey Chicas and Chicos, Don't get me wrong. I love people with disabilities and every disability out there, but doesn't mean I want them all at the moment. I have a lot on my plate. Anyway it's a daunting thing if you thought one moment you're completely fine and normal, then the next you do something so crazy that you're seen as an anomaly, the freak of nature. Your whole world comes crashing down around you and it makes you think about why you let your walls covered in ivy come down to let people in that you thought you could trust a thousand percent to then tell you that something about you is odd if you're a particular person like myself. You take pride in who you are as a person and when someone tells you they think there's something wrong with you, it shatters your high confidence and self-esteem to the point where you overthink the simplest of things. It tips the scales of negative emotion in your favour. Being picked apart piece by piece like a brick...

WHIPLASHED BY TEENAGE ATTITUDE

 Hi Awesome Readers,  'This shakes your confidence to the core. It makes you unsure of yourself on a whole new level. Five seconds ago, I was in this impossible position and it felt like the ground opens you up and swallows you whole. It's like your body has been set on fire and the flames are engulfing you from the inside out. Just stating an opinion to a teen can give you scarring just cuz they go to college and think they're smart, they haven't been through the stresses of university even if you do it from home you're still doing the same thing as your peers. You're still working your ass off to get the grades to graduate. Okay, I'm gonna stop rambling now and give y'all some awe inspiring advice. Grab those fluffy pillows, throw blankets, put on your favourite pair of loungewear/PJ's/hoodies/shirts, grab some soup and garlic bread, and listen loud and crystal clear: 'Don't let it faze you when you get hit with the lashing of attitude when...

BADASS RUDENESS ON ANOTHER LEVEL- EVEN BANTER AT IT'S FINEST

 Hey guys, been a long time, been busy reading to get inspiration. Anyway, this is a topic that I rage on 99.9% of the time. No lie! It's not about being rude it's about being sure of yourself, so you can assert yourself in a way where you have confidence oozing our of your persona. You gotta use your words to impress and go out in style or with a bang. Yes your mouth will get you in trouble at times, mine does more or less, but don't let it faze you, you have to own it in a way. It's not about being bitchy to a certain extent. It's about letting those around you who will undermine you to show them who's boss without giving off the vibe that they intimidate you on a level. So by all means you can be as high or mighty as you wanna be. When it comes to banter it's the balance of wounding an opponent in the field or having the upper hand in a situation which one will you take? I'm taking both under my belt, to be honest. Anyway I'll stop wasting time by...

HAVING A PLATFORM WHERE YOUR VOICE IS HEARD IF IT GETS SHUT DOWN CONSTANTLY

 Hey guys, it's been a while. It's back to business as usual. This is a topic that's kinda close to home. Many of you may have this inner narrative where you don't speak much cuz people are always shushing you now and again. It's gotta stop! I don't know if this gets your blood boiling, but it sure as hell can get personal so just ride out the storm with the calmness. Anyway, I'll stop rambling and give y'all some awesome advice so sit back, relax against those fluffy pillows of yours, grab some cheese twists, wear your favourite pair of loungewear, PJ's/Joggers/T-shirt/hoodie, and listen loud and crystal clear 'You need to speak your truth cuz keeping everything down in the darkness will make you spill into the void and you don't wanna become the voiceless so being on platforms such as the BMF (Big Mouth Forum), or any other platform such as social media will help you to crawl out of your shell and blossom from a caterpillar into a butterfly...

THE FAMOUS MARCUS EATON LINE ('THIS IS FOR YOUR OWN GOOD')

 Guys It's back to business as usual, I hate this line as it just puts you off. It's a sign that you're not good enough for someone, when in face you are number 1. Trust me, it just sinks in like that nagging nauseous feeling that sits in the pit of your stomach. Maybe it's that nailbiting anxiety that eats away at you, when those words tell you you'll amount to nothing. This line is harsh to hear once or twice a day. Guys it's not too late to tell someone that hearing this line makes you feel inadequate. Okay I'll stop rambling now. I'm gonna give you some mind-blowing advice, so sit back/relax, grab those fluffy cushions/pillows, wear your favourite PJ's/Loungewear/Joggers and T-shirts, grab a bowl of Cookie Crisp, and listen loud and crystal clear. 'Find an escape before it's too late. It could be drawing/writing/watching. Fall into someone else's world when yours is turned upside down to forget about the cruel reality of the truth hit...