BADASS RUDENESS ON ANOTHER LEVEL- EVEN BANTER AT IT'S FINEST

 Hey guys, been a long time, been busy reading to get inspiration. Anyway, this is a topic that I rage on 99.9% of the time. No lie! It's not about being rude it's about being sure of yourself, so you can assert yourself in a way where you have confidence oozing our of your persona. You gotta use your words to impress and go out in style or with a bang. Yes your mouth will get you in trouble at times, mine does more or less, but don't let it faze you, you have to own it in a way. It's not about being bitchy to a certain extent. It's about letting those around you who will undermine you to show them who's boss without giving off the vibe that they intimidate you on a level. So by all means you can be as high or mighty as you wanna be. When it comes to banter it's the balance of wounding an opponent in the field or having the upper hand in a situation which one will you take? I'm taking both under my belt, to be honest. Anyway I'll stop wasting time by rambling on and get down to the nitty gritty of it all and lay down some awe-inspiring advice. Sit back and relax against those fluffy cushions, grab some cheese and onion crisps, get into your favourite loungewear/PJ's/hoodies/T-shirts, listen loud and crystal clear, 'It's not so much as talking back, rudeness has different layers and levels like a cake, you gotta pick and choose when to wield it like a harsh thorny weapon, when it hits its' target it's bound to burn, it's the only way to put up your walls when trust doesn't come easy? Cuz people can break it in half just as easily, I've seen it happen with my own eyes. It's okay to hide behind the mask of rudeness cuz if you lower it to show an ounce of vulnerability people will waste no time in walking all over you. Rudeness. the banter can hide emotion or pain as easily as a blanket can cover your body.' 

Okay, I've rambled for a long time now, so I've left a heavy load of advice on your shoulders. Basically all I'm trying to say is confiding and trusting might not always work. You need to hold all the cards close to your chest, and being  badass and a boss at being rude can help. Especially if you wanna bullshit a bullshitter. It's hard to get everything off your chest so being rude/ using banter that's rude is the greatest way in life to deflect from problems that are effecting you. The best line I've heard this week is 'don't chat shit.' The power behind this amount of rudeness shook me to my core. Not gonna lie, I was like DAMN! The person went in for the kill. That's what is jaw-droppingly inspirational. Anyway you gotta create a mask of indifference and not care about anyone or the consequences when you're being rude, cuz caring about someone who can stab you in the back makes you weak, letting your guard down can cost you within an inch of life. So it doesn't matter if people keep telling you watch your tone, watch your mouth, you have to encase your heart in stone sometimes cuz people have the power to crush it. I've been there done that once and it's not pretty. I had to learn the hard way. Okay, lets switch from the personal to the general. 

I'm gonna give y'all some hard-hitting, ground-breaking advice, so sit back and relax against those fluffy pillows, grab some breadsticks and Philadelphia, wear your favourite slippers, loungewear, PJ's, T-shirts/hoodies/joggers, and listen loud and crystal clear: 'It's not about being disrespectful or offending anyone, it's about pride, savageness and ruthlessness when you're being rude even with the rude nature of banter. You have to hold your head high despite what people think about you. It's not about matching up to someone's image that's been created for you, or a mould that someone's trying to fit you into. It's about being comfortable in your skin, emitting all the power and confidence to hide the real you underneath all that sass, cuz people can twist the beauty of the real you and turn it into a beast.' 

You have to become a beast so no one can free the soft pliable person who gives unconditional love to people that you've hidden from the world. Hurt is a fickle thing, but it teaches you life lessons that can be learned from experiences such as being talked about behind one's back for instance. You have to harden your bubbly personality to become a shell of what you were once before. It can be a person in the inner circle of your immediate famiglia, a best mate etc. Being tough and forging a shield of armour around your heart is the key to watching one's back. You have to create a rude exterior to ensure that people won't figure out the ways they've made you sink to your knees in front of them. It doesn't matter, you gotta be careful about people. Especially the one's whose words can come back and bite you in the ass. It might not be the best way to go about things, but the mind is a messed up thing it can drag you down one minute, then build you back another minute so you can come back stronger and use the raging beast of anger, rage, pain and rudeness to it's fullest extent. Don't let anyone render you speechless it ain't a good feeling.

Okay I guess I went too far there. Always going on and on. I'll get back to giving you mind-blowing advice. Sit back and relax, grab those fuzzy pillows and blankets, grab some chuckri sticks, get into your favourite pair of loungewear, PJ's, hoodies, joggers and T-shirts, and listen loud and crystal clear. 'You gotta keep the raging fire of confidence alive on the outside rather than the inside, you don't need to let it die into a flickering embers for even a second. It's gotta be a constant burn in your chest. Even if it's just a bit of banter to shield yourself from getting hurt. You need to get back out there and show the world who you really are underneath all of those fake-it-til-you make it layers even if it's a little glimpse, but you have to pick and choose who you wanna show all your different sides to. Everyone tries to judge your book cover in detail, you just have to forget about them and focus on masking the fine line between cockiness and rudeness in order to blow them away or take the floor out from underneath them.' 

Ooh that was mind-shattering advice. I know it's a lot to take in, so let it sink in slowly like a fork sinking in chocolate cake. It's all about acting tough and giving zero cares in world. Vulnerability isn't a great look most of the time, it can lead to pain and suffering if you let the wrong person see it. You gotta be rude to an extent where you're not showing disrespect, but winning over a crowd to own the stage of life. Life's a thunderstorm. We need to ride it out in whatever way we can; even if people think you're unforgiving/callous with your words. You have to be straight-up and honest, which isn't necessarily a bad trait to have if you know how to say it how it is and not hold back. This is what being a bad ass is. As Shuri from Black Panther Wakanda Forever said 'I'll burn the world' when T'Challa died. Don't take burning the world in a literal sense here! I'd mean in a metaphorical way with your words of badass rudeness- even a bit of banter at it's finest. You gotta wine and dine someone with your words one day right? 

I have rambled on for a long time now. I gotta get with the program and give y'all some jaw-dropping advice. Sit back, relax, grab some Mini Cheddars, wear your favourite pair of loungewear/PJ's/hoodies, joggers, and T-shirts, listen loud and crystal clear. 'Forget about the haters cuz haters will be haters. Go with the flow, let your voice throw people to the ground, your words could literally bring a person to their knees if you knew how much power it could wield. Don't ever give anyone the chance to underestimate you until you defy the odds of expectation. Be who you are. Original and unforgettable. Rude, and rotten to the core if you like. Don't give people the chance to make you feel small, disrespected, degraded, humiliated and powerless. Be a phoenix and rise from the ashes of disappointment swimming in the windows to the souls of people's eyes.'

Jeez Louise that was a hell of a lot of advice, which dropped some jaws right? I'm floored with it as well to be honest. Rudeness and it's banter were meant to be rained down from a boss on another level. It's crazy, you gotta know it's true colours to be badass even if you're labelled as a bitch. So being clever with comebacks can be a way to be the queen or king of rudeness it's your throne so ascend it to the best of your ability. I'm gonna leave y'all to chew on that.

Enjoy reading. Stay glued to your screen.

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