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CAUSING DRAMA

  YOU DON'T MEAN FOR IT TO HAPPEN BUT WHEN IT DOES THERE'S NO ESCAPING IT EVEN IF YOU DIDN'T START IT IN THE FIRST PLACE. IT CAN GET UGLY AND A PERSON CAN TELL YOU THAT YOU'VE CAUSED AN UNNECESSARY BIT OF DRAMA THAT WASN'T EVEN YOUR FAULT IN THE FIRST INSTANCE. THEN THE PERSON WHO THINKS YOU'VE CAUSED SOME KIND OF DRAMA WILL TELL OTHER PEOPLE ABOUT IT WHEN YOU'RE NOT IN THE SAME SPACE AS THEM SO BE CAREFUL WHEN SOMEONE ELSE FILLS YOU IN ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE WHO'RE TALKING BEHIND YOUR BACK AND NEVER TELL ANYONE WHO'S RELATED TO THE PERSON WHO HAS SPREAD SOME LIES ABOUT YOU CAUSING DRAMA EVEN IF YOUR PARENTALS HAVE STUCK UP FOR YOU AND HELPED YOU IN A SITUATION IF PEOPLE HAVE NOT ASKED YOU IF YOU WANTED TO GO SOMEWHERE WITH THEM. OKAY I'M GONNA STOP RAMBLING AND GIVE YOU GUYS SOME AWESOME ADVICE SO GRAB YOUR FAVOURITE PAIR OF JOGGERS AND WHICHEVER T-SHIRT YOU ENJOY WEARING AND GRAB SOME BLANKETS AND PILLOWS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX AND GRAB SOME ICED C...

LEAVING SOMEONE OUT IN A SITUATION

  HEARTS BREAK AND DUST GETS IN YOUR EYES TO DISGUISE THE TEARS THAT YOU WANNA SHED  CUZ YOU'RE FEELING LIKE YOU'RE A THIRD OR FOURTH WHEEL. DON'T BE SHY ABOUT HOW YOU'RE FEELING CUZ IT COULD GET REAL AWKWARD QUITE FAST AND YOU DON'T WANNA GET STUCK BETWEEN A ROCK AND A HARD PLACE. IF YOU'RE A CERTAIN AGE AND YOUR FAMIGLIA-FAMILY THINK  YOU'RE TOO IMMATURE TO KNOW ABOUT DRAMA IN THE FAM CUZ THEY'VE GOT TRUST ISSUES AND THEY LEAVE YOU OUT WHEN IT COMES TO NEW INFO  IT MAKES YOU FEEL LIKE YOU'RE A MISFIT AND YOU'RE NOT IN THE SAME LEAGUE AS THEM WHICH IS DOWNRIGHT RUDE AND DISCRIMINATING BUT DON'T GIVE INTO OTHER PEOPLE'S STEREOTYPES OF YOU CUZ YOU'RE BETTER THAN THEM AND YOU NEED TO BE THE BIGGER PERSON AND TELL THEM STRAIGHT UP ABOUT HOW YOU'RE AFFECTED BY ALL THE BS SURROUNDING YOU. I'M GONNA STOP RAMBLING AND GIVE Y'ALL SOME AWESOME ADVICE SO GRAB SOME PILLOWS AND BLANKETS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX AND GRAB SOME MINI ROLLS ...

SHARING A ROOM WITH ANOTHER PERSON

  PRIVACY IS A NEED IN A YOUNG WOMAN/MAN'S LIFE BUT SOMETIMES IT'S NOT TAKEN INTO CONSIDERATION CUZ SOMEONE MIGHT HAVE MORE CONTROL WHEN IT COMES TO MAKING THE BIG DECISIONS IN THE ROOM. SOMETIMES YOUR CONTRIBUTIONS ARE PUT TOWARDS THE SMALLER THINGS WHEN IT COMES TO HAVING CREATIVE GENIUS CONTROL WHEN YOU REALLY WANT TO BE PART OF MAKING THE ROOM TO FIT YOUR STYLE. SOMETIMES YOU'LL REARRANGE A CERTAIN THING TO MAKE SPACE FOR YOURSELF SO IT MAKES YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE IN THE ROOM AND WHEN YOUR SIBLING COMES BACK FROM GOING SOMEWHERE AND TELLS YOU THAT YOU'VE MESSED UP THE VIBE OF THE ROOM IT WILL MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE YOU'VE HIT ROCK-BOTTOM WHEN THEY MAKE EXCUSES ABOUT ANXIETY EVEN THOUGH YOU'VE TRIED TO INCLUDE YOUR IDEAS INTO THE ROOM/AREA. I'VE RAMBLED ON FOR AGES BUT I'LL BE GIVING Y'ALL SOME AWE-INSPIRING ADVICE SO GRAB YOUR FAVOURITE PJS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX AGAINST ALL THE BLANKETS AND PILLOWS IN YOUR ROOM AND GRAB SOME MUFFINS AND LISTEN LOUD A...

CONFIDENT IN YOUR SKIN

  THIS IS THE MOST DIFFICULT THING TO DO WHEN SOMEONE TELLS YOU HOW UGLY YOUR SKINS LOOKS AND THE TURMOIL OF INSECURITY THAT EATS YOU UP ON THE INSIDE BUT EVERYONE'S BEAUTIFUL ON THE INSIDE AND THE OUTSIDE IN THEIR OWN WAYS SO WHY DO THEY HAVE TO MAKE DIGS AT YOU ABOUT YOUR SKIN? THE ANSWER IS CUZ THEY'RE GETTING OLD AND WRINKLY AND THEY'RE JEALOUS OF YOUR YOUNG FLAWLESS SKIN BUT DON'T TELL ANYONE THAT THEY'LL GO BERSERK. DON'T LET THE STATUS QUO TELL YOU HOW TO FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR SKIN JUST BE CONFIDENT EVEN IF THESE PEOPLE WHO CLAIM TO CARE ABOUT YOU THINK THAT YOU CAN'T HAVE CLEAR BEAUTIFUL SKIN AND GIVE YOU A WALLOPING ABOUT IT AND MAKE ALL YOUR CONFIDENCE VANISH INTO THIN AIR AND THEN CHUCK IT OUT THE WINDOW. WHO CARES IF YOU'RE SKIN IS SPOTTY FOR A BIT? THAT IS SHOWING A SIGN THAT YOU'RE ENTERING THE REALM OF TEENAGE-HOOD. IT DOESN'T MATTER TO THEM UNLESS YOU FIT IN WITH THE FAMILY INSTEAD OF DOING YOU AND NOT BLENDING IN WITH T...

ONE ON ONE TIME WITH YOURSELF

  SOMETIMES IT OFFENDS PEOPLE WHEN YOU'RE HAPPY THAT THEY'RE GOING SOMEPLACE LIKE THE SHOPS AND YOU START DANCING IN CELEBRATION BUT THEY DON'T UNDERSTAND SOMETIMES YOU LIKE YOUR TIME TO JUST DESTRESS BY YOURSELF WITH NO ONE ELSE IN THE ROOM.  IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT IF YOU WANNA HAVE A BREAK FROM THE INSTRUCTIONS BEING FIRED AT YOU LIKE A MACHINE GUN AND IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT IF YOU'VE GOT A DARK SENSE OF HUMOUR AND YOU'RE JUST JOKING. HAVING ONE ON ONE TIME WITH YOURSELF ALLOWS YOU TO JUST HAVE A GOOD TIME WITHOUT WORRYING ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE ARE GONNA SAY TO YOU. ANYWAY I'VE RAMBLED ENOUGH SO I'M GONNA GIVE Y'ALL SOME WORDS OF INSPIRATION SO GRAB THOSE PILLOWS AND BLANKETS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX, GRAB SOME CHEESESTRING AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'DON'T EVER CHEER OR GET HAPPY WHEN THE PARENTALS ARE GOING SOMEWHERE CUZ THEN YOU'LL BE STUCK IN A LITTLE BIT OF TROUBLE SO YOU SHOULD JUST SAY OKAY AND PARTAY WHEN THEY'RE GONE...

MAN TANTRUMS

  THEY'RE EXPLOSIVE AND THEY CAN UPSET A PERSON WHO REALLY CARES ABOUT YOU. THEY UNLEASH A WAVE OF UNNATURAL RAGE THAT CAN'T BE TAMED ONCE IT COMES OUT AND SETS EVERYTHING THE PERSON TOUCHES ON FIRE. I'VE ENCOUNTERED THEM FIRST HAND AND THE FIRST THING THAT TRIGGERS IT IS STRESS.  WHY CAN'T SOMEONE TAKE A DEEP BREATH AND KEEP THE POWER OF ANGER UNDER CONTROL? ONCE A PERSON IS CHEESED OFF THERE'S NO STOPPING THEM CUZ THEY SNAP LIKE AN ELASTIC BAND UNTIL THEY CAN'T BE A PATIENT PERSON ANYMORE. SOMETIMES A PERSON HASN'T EVEN DONE ANYTHING TO ANOTHER PERSON AND THEN THIS THUNDERCLAP OF ANGER GOES OFF IN THE OTHER PERSON'S SYSTEM AND THEY JUST EXPLODE LIKE A GRENADE WHEN THEY GET ASKED A SIMPLE QUESTION THEY CAN'T ANSWER. OKAY I'VE RAMBLED FOR A LITTLE WHILE SO I'M GONNA GIVE Y'ALL SOME MIND-BLOWING ADVICE SO GRAB SOME BLANKETS AND PILLOWS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX AND GRAB SOME CHOCOLATE FINGERS AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'IF SOMEONE ...

SIGHING TO LET ALL THE TENSION OUT

  PEOPLE THAT YOU TRUST AND CARE ABOUT THINK IT'S DISRESPECTFUL BUT IT'S NOT WHEN TWO PEOPLE ARE FIRING A WHOLE LOAD OF INSTRUCTIONS AT YOU AND THEN YOU FEEL LIKE YOU'RE DROWNING IN ORDERS AND DEMANDS AND THAT ONE SIGH OF RELIEVING ALL THE TENSION THAT'S WEIGHING YOU DOWN SO YOU CAN JUST LET LOOSE AND TAKE IT EASY AND SOME PEOPLE WON'T UNDERSTAND THAT. ANYWAY I'M GONNA STOP RAMBLING AND GIVE Y'ALL SOME MIND-BLOWING ADVICE SO GRAB SOME BLANKETS AND PILLOWS AND GRAB SOME MINI BURGERS AND SIT BACK, RELAX AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'WHEN YOU LET OUT THAT BREATH YOU'RE HOLDING IN CUZ SOMEONE'S GIVING YOU A HARD TIME ABOUT SOMETHING THAT'S QUITE STUPID DUMB AND CRAZY AND YOU SIGH IT'LL ALLOW YOU TO RELEASE ALL THOSE FEELINGS OF ANXIETY AND PENT UP ANGST THAT YOU CAN'T ALWAYS PUT INTO WORDS SINCE PEOPLE MIGHT NOT GIVE YOU THE TIME OF DAY TO LEND YOU A LISTENING EAR SO DON'T GET TOO WOUND UP IF YOU WALK THROUGH A FLAME OF TROUBLE A...