ONE ON ONE TIME WITH YOURSELF

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 SOMETIMES IT OFFENDS PEOPLE WHEN YOU'RE HAPPY THAT THEY'RE GOING SOMEPLACE LIKE THE SHOPS AND YOU START DANCING IN CELEBRATION BUT THEY DON'T UNDERSTAND SOMETIMES YOU LIKE YOUR TIME TO JUST DESTRESS BY YOURSELF WITH NO ONE ELSE IN THE ROOM.  IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT IF YOU WANNA HAVE A BREAK FROM THE INSTRUCTIONS BEING FIRED AT YOU LIKE A MACHINE GUN AND IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT IF YOU'VE GOT A DARK SENSE OF HUMOUR AND YOU'RE JUST JOKING. HAVING ONE ON ONE TIME WITH YOURSELF ALLOWS YOU TO JUST HAVE A GOOD TIME WITHOUT WORRYING ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE ARE GONNA SAY TO YOU. ANYWAY I'VE RAMBLED ENOUGH SO I'M GONNA GIVE Y'ALL SOME WORDS OF INSPIRATION SO GRAB THOSE PILLOWS AND BLANKETS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX, GRAB SOME CHEESESTRING AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'DON'T EVER CHEER OR GET HAPPY WHEN THE PARENTALS ARE GOING SOMEWHERE CUZ THEN YOU'LL BE STUCK IN A LITTLE BIT OF TROUBLE SO YOU SHOULD JUST SAY OKAY AND PARTAY WHEN THEY'RE GONE' TRUST ME I'VE LEARNT MY LESSON ABOUT THIS ONE BUT IT'S NOT ABOUT ME SO LET'S GET BACK TO THE GENERALISATION OF  IT ALL. SO YOU SHOULD VALUE YOUR ONE ON ONE TIME WITH YOURSELF CUZ IT'S YOUR TIME TO JUST FIND THAT INNER PEACE AND REFLECT ON ALL THE POSITIVES ABOUT YOURSELF IN THAT MOMENT AND YOU CAN JUST ORGANISE YOUR THOUGHTS SO THAT YOU'RE NOT GOING TOO DEEP AND GETTING IN YOUR HEAD ABOUT IT. WHEN YOU'RE HAVING ONE ON ONE TIME WITH YOURSELF IT'S YOUR TIME TO CHILL BY YOURSELF WITHOUT HAVING TO ANSWER ANY DIFFICULT QUESTIONS OR GET INTO ANY CONFLICT WITH ANYONE AND JUST NETFLIX AND CHILL IN PEACE WITHOUT ANYONE ASKING YOU A BILLION QUESTIONS. ANYWAY I'VE RAMBLED ON FOR TOO LONG SO I'M GONNA GIVE Y'ALL SOME AWE-INSPIRING WORDS OF ADVICE SO GRAB YOUR FAVOURITE PAIR OF PJS, GRAB SOME PILLOWS AND BLANKETS SIT BACK AND RELAX AND GRAB SOME CEREAL BARS THAT YOU LOVE AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'WHEN YOU'RE HAVING ONE ON ONE TIME WITH YOURSELF YOU NEED TO ENJOY IT AND FORGET ABOUT ALL YOUR WORRIES/ANXIETIES/INSECURITIES SO YOU CAN LET LOOSE AND HAVE A GREAT TIME JUST BEING BY YOURSELF WITHOUT ANYONE GETTING ALL UP IN YOUR GRILLE ABOUT ALL THE THINGS THAT MAKE YOU IMPERFECT. HAVING TIME TO YOURSELF WILL ALLOW YOU TO TAKE A BREATHER FROM ALL THOSE PEOPLE WHO GIVE YOU CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM 24/7 SO THAT YOU CAN FEEL 100 PERCENT OKAY ABOUT YOURSELF' OOH THIS WAS SOME HEAVY ADVICE BUT SOMETIMES PEOPLE DO GET A BIT TOO MUCH AND YOU NEED THAT MENTAL SPACE AWAY FROM THEM SO THAT YOU CAN RE-ENERGISE YOURSELF AND THINK ABOUT THE THINGS YOU NEED TO WITHOUT ANYONE ASKING YOU IF YOU'RE OKAY. IT'S OKAY IF YOU'RE NOT OKAY AND YOU NEED THAT TIME TO FOCUS ON YOURSELF AND JUST TAKE A FEW DEEP BREATHS AND JUST CLOSE YOUR EYES IN PEACE WITHOUT ANYONE TELLING YOU WHAT TO DO MOST OF THE TIME CUZ  IT'S YOUR TIME TO TAKE A BREAK FROM PEOPLE SO THAT YOU CAN BE ABLE TO TAKE THE HEAT WHEN THEY'RE GIVING IT TO YOU AFTER YOU HAVE A BIT OF ONE ON ONE TIME WITH YOURSELF IN YOUR SAFE SPACE WHERE EVER THAT IS. ANYWAY I'VE VENTED FOR AGES SO I NEED TO GIVE Y'ALL SOME JAW-DROPPING ADVICE SO GRAB THOSE PILLOWS AND BLANKETS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX AND GRAB SOME OREOS AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'HAVE AS MUCH FUN AS YOU WANNA HAVE WHEN YOU'RE HOME ALONE CUZ WHEN THERE'S TIMES THAT YOU'RE FACING TOUGH SITUATIONS YOU CAN LOOK FORWARD TO YOUR TIME ALONE WITH YOURSELF TO REFLECT ON HOW YOU'RE FEELING ABOUT CERTAIN SITUATIONS IN THE HEAT OF THAT MOMENT THAT'S PASSED SO YOU CAN BUILD A PROTECTIVE ARMOUR AROUND YOURSELF SO THAT YOU'RE NOT GONNA GET HURT AGAIN AND REMEMBER YOUR WALLS ARE YOUR BEST FRIENDS UNTIL YOU'RE HAVING THAT TIME TO YOURSELF WHERE YOU CAN LET YOUR GUARD DOWN AND JUST SCREAM OUT LOUD ABOUT ALL THE THINGS THAT FRUSTRATE YOU' OOH THIS WAS A HUGE CHUNK OF ADVICE BUT YOU HAVE TO FIND THAT BALANCE SO THAT YOU CAN BE ABLE TO FIGHT YOUR BATTLES BETTER ON THE BATTLEFIELD OF LOVE CUZ IT'S TOUGH WHEN YOU'RE TRYING TO SHOW PEOPLE THE REAL YOU AND THEY MIGHT NOT LIKE THAT PART OF YOU ALL THE TIME SO WHEN YOU'RE HAVING ONE ON ONE TIME WITH YOURSELF JUST LET THE REAL YOU OUT AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE SO THAT YOU CAN DESTRESS UNTIL YOU NEED TO WHIP THAT POKER FACE BACK OUT AGAIN TO COVER UP ALL YOUR EMOTIONS AND KEEP THEM IN CHECK. WHEN YOU'RE AT HOME AND YOU'RE HOME ALONE YOU CAN LET THAT DAM OF EMOTION FLOW AS FREELY AS YOU WANT CUZ  YOU CAN EXPRESS YOURSELF WITHOUT GETTING IN TOO MUCH TROUBLE. JUST DON'T CELEBRATE TOO MUCH WHEN THE PARENTALS LEAVE CUZ THEN SOME SERIOUS PEOPLE WILL TELL YOU NOT TO DO THAT CUZ YOUR PARENTALS CARE ABOUT YOU TOO MUCH AND I KNOW IT'S A GOOD THING BUT SOMETIMES YOU JUST WANT YOUR SPACE ALONE INSTEAD OF OTHER PEOPLE INVADING IT FOR A LITTLE WHILE AND THAT'S PERFECTLY NORMAL AND OKAY. ANYWAY I'M GONNA STOP RAMBLING AND GET BACK TO GIVING Y'ALL SOME AMAZING WORDS OF WISDOM SO GRAB YOUR FAVOURITE LOUNGE WEAR AND GRAB AS MANY PILLOWS AND BLANKETS THAT YOU NEED AND GRAB SOME CHEESY CHIPS AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'DANCE AND SING YOUR HEART OUT WHEN NO ONE'S THERE TRUST ME IT HELPS TO MAKE YOU HAPPY. ALSO JUST GO INTO FULL RELAXATION MODE AND LISTEN TO SOME GREAT TRACKS CUZ MUSIC HAS A CALMING EFFECT ON YOU AS WELL WHEN YOU'RE HAVING ONE ON ONE TIME WITH YOURSELF CUZ IT ALLOWS YOU TO FORGET ABOUT THINGS THAT WORRY YOU AND IT WILL ALLOW YOU TO DEAL WITH CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM MUCH BETTER BUT WHEN YOU'RE HAVING ONE ON ONE TIME WITH YOURSELF JUST BE COMFORTABLE IN YOUR SKIN AND LEARN TO LET GO AND NOT THINK TOO DEEPLY JUST WATCH ALL YOUR FAVOURITE SHOWS BE IT MARVEL OR DC '  THIS WAS MUCH LIGHTER ADVICE TO LEAVE Y'ALL WITH SO IT WILL ALLOW YOU TO GO WITH THE FLOW AND JUST BE REAL WITH YOURSELF AND LIKE YOURSELF BEFORE ANYONE ELSE KNOWS YOU. I'M GONNA LET YOU GUYS THINK ABOUT THIS AND SIGN OFF NOW

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