CONFIDENT IN YOUR SKIN

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 THIS IS THE MOST DIFFICULT THING TO DO WHEN SOMEONE TELLS YOU HOW UGLY YOUR SKINS LOOKS AND THE TURMOIL OF INSECURITY THAT EATS YOU UP ON THE INSIDE BUT EVERYONE'S BEAUTIFUL ON THE INSIDE AND THE OUTSIDE IN THEIR OWN WAYS SO WHY DO THEY HAVE TO MAKE DIGS AT YOU ABOUT YOUR SKIN? THE ANSWER IS CUZ THEY'RE GETTING OLD AND WRINKLY AND THEY'RE JEALOUS OF YOUR YOUNG FLAWLESS SKIN BUT DON'T TELL ANYONE THAT THEY'LL GO BERSERK. DON'T LET THE STATUS QUO TELL YOU HOW TO FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR SKIN JUST BE CONFIDENT EVEN IF THESE PEOPLE WHO CLAIM TO CARE ABOUT YOU THINK THAT YOU CAN'T HAVE CLEAR BEAUTIFUL SKIN AND GIVE YOU A WALLOPING ABOUT IT AND MAKE ALL YOUR CONFIDENCE VANISH INTO THIN AIR AND THEN CHUCK IT OUT THE WINDOW. WHO CARES IF YOU'RE SKIN IS SPOTTY FOR A BIT? THAT IS SHOWING A SIGN THAT YOU'RE ENTERING THE REALM OF TEENAGE-HOOD. IT DOESN'T MATTER TO THEM UNLESS YOU FIT IN WITH THE FAMILY INSTEAD OF DOING YOU AND NOT BLENDING IN WITH THE BEAUTY CUZ EVERYONE IS BEAUTIFUL IN THEIR OWN WAY SHAPE OR FORM NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU STICK OUT LIKE A SORE THUMB. OK I'VE RAMBLED ON FOR AGES NOW SO I'LL GIVE Y'ALL SOME TIME TO GRAB BLANKETS, PILLOWS AND YOUR FAVOURITE PJS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX WHILE GRABBING SOME SENSATIONS AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW COOL YOU LOOK IN THSI TIMELINE IT MATTERS HOW SMART YOU ARE SO THAT YOU CAN EXCEL IN SCHOOL/COLLEGE/UNI. IT DOESN'T MATTER WHETHER YOU'RE UGLY OR NOT IT MATTERS IF YOU ARE WALKING THE CATWALK OF LIFE OOZING WITH PURE CONFIDENCE IN YOUR SKIN. LOOKS DON'T ALWAYS HAVE TO MATTER TO EVERYONE I WOULD CHOOSE BRAINS AND BEAUTY IF I WAS LOOKING FOR SOME AMAZING QUALITIES IN A PERSON SO WHY DO THE PARENTALS OR PEOPLE WHO CARE ABOUT YOU PREACH/LECTURE ABOUT THE WONDERS OF CREAM IF YOU HATE PUTTING IT ON ALL THE DAMN TIME?' ALL I'M GONNA SAY IS PREACH YOUNG PEOPLE AND THOSE PEOPLE WHO CAN ROCK THAT SAVAGERY TO A TEE. YOU SHOULDN'T BE FEELING LOW AND UPSET ABOUT NOT HAVING THE GREATEST SKIN OUT THERE CAN'T SOMEONE JUST BE COMFORTABLE IN HOW THEIR NATURAL SKIN LOOKS WITHOUT PUTTING CHEMICALS SUCH AS MAKE-UP ON IT OR CREAMS ON IT UNTIL THEY CAN JUST BE LEFT IN PEACE? YOU SHOULD KEEP YOUR CHIN UP AND HOLD YOUR HEAD UP HIGHER AND BE IN CONTROL OF YOURSELF AND BE A SEXY BEAST CUZ IF YOU UNLEASH YOUR BOSS MODE SO NO ONE CAN MAKE YOU FEEL INSECURE ABOUT YOUR SKIN AGAIN. I'VE RANTED ON FOR A LITTLE WHILE NOW SO I'M GONNA GIVE YOU GUYS SOME JAW-DROPPING ADVICE SO SIT BACK AND RELAX GRAB SOME PILLOWS/BLANKETS AND GRAB SOME DAIRY MILK FRUIT AND NUT AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'EVERYTIME YOU SET FOOT ON THIS EARTH YOU'RE SETTING IT ON FIRE CUZ YOU'VE GOTTA BELIEVE THAT YOUR SKIN IS CLEAR AND AMAZING SO YOU CAN BUILD YOUR SELF ESTEEM BACK UP SLOWLY ONCE YOU'VE BEEN KNOCKED DOWN TO THE GROUND ABOUT YOUR SKIN. SO WHY DO YOU SECOND GUESS YOURSELF WHEN SOMEONE FIRES THE BULLET OF LECTURE AT YOU ABOUT HOW YOUR SKIN IS LOOKING? YOU HAVE TO STAND YOUR GROUND AND PUT ON YOUR MASK IF YOUR EMOTIONS ARE STARTING TO GET THE BETTER OF YOU AND IF THEY SEE YOU'RE BREAKING DOWN AND FEELING INSECURE ABOUT WHAT THEY'RE SAYING THEN IT'S GAME OVER SO YOU GOTTA PUT YOUR GAME FACE ON' OOH THIS IS SOME DEEP ADVICE BUT IF SOMEONE'S BOTHERING YOU ABOUT IT YOU'VE GOTTA PUT YOUR GUARD UP SO THAT THE HATERS CAN'T FIND THE CRACKS IN YOUR POSITIVE HAPPY GO LUCKY VIBE/PERSONALITY  BUT SOMETIMES WHEN YOU'RE JUDGED OR CRITICISED TOO MUCH ABOUT HOW YOUR SKIN LOOKS YOU START TO FEEL VERY UNCOMFORTABLE AND YOUR MOOD DROPS FROM BEING 100 PERCENT OKAY TO 20 PERCENT AND WE DON'T WANT THAT TO HAPPEN TO YOU GUYS SO YOU HAVE TO GIVE THOSE PEOPLE A FAKE SMILE AND JUST SMILE AND WAVE AS IF NOTHING'S WRONG SO THAT THEY WON'T GET SUSPICIOUS OR ASK TOO MANY QUESTIONS THAT YOU MIGHT NOT BE ABLE TO ANSWER. IT'S TOTALLY OKAY TO WANT TO CRAWL INTO A CORNER AND CRY IT ALL OUT CUZ EVERYONE NEEDS A GOOD CRY BUT YOU COULD ALSO NOT LET ANYONE'S WORDS AFFECT YOU AND FIGHT BACK UNTIL THEY'RE EMBARRASSED AND YOU'VE GOT THE UPPER HAND FOR A BIT. I'VE RAMBLED ON FOR SO LONG AND VENTED ABOUT A LOT OF STUFF TO YOU GUYS SO I'M GONNA GIVE YOU SOME AWE-INSPIRING WORDS OF GOLDEN WISDOM SO GRAB YOUR PILLOWS/BLANKETS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX AND GRAB SOME NESQUICK AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'NOBODY CAN HAVE THE PERFECT GLOWY SKIN AND LIVE UP TO EVERY ONE'S EXPECTATIONS ABOUT HOW YOUR SKIN SHOULD LOOK. THEY TELL YOU THAT YOUR SKIN'S UGLY CUZ THEY'RE JEALOUS ABOUT YOUR FLAWLESS CLEAR SKIN CUZ YOU DON'T WEAR MAKE-UP ALL THE TIME. NEXT TIME THEY MAKE A COMMENT ABOUT YOUR SKIN YOU HAVE TO BACK YOURSELF UP IN THE HEAT OF THE MOMENT'  DON'T LET ANYBODY PUSH YOU INTO A MOULD OF PERFECTION IF YOU'RE HAPPY WITH HOW YOU LOOK OR FEEL SO ON THAT NOTE I'M GONNA SIGN OFF AS I'VE TOOK TOO LONG TO FINISH THIS OFF 

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