LEAVING SOMEONE OUT IN A SITUATION

 HEARTS BREAK AND DUST GETS IN YOUR EYES TO DISGUISE THE TEARS THAT YOU WANNA SHED  CUZ YOU'RE FEELING LIKE YOU'RE A THIRD OR FOURTH WHEEL. DON'T BE SHY ABOUT HOW YOU'RE FEELING CUZ IT COULD GET REAL AWKWARD QUITE FAST AND YOU DON'T WANNA GET STUCK BETWEEN A ROCK AND A HARD PLACE. IF YOU'RE A CERTAIN AGE AND YOUR FAMIGLIA-FAMILY THINK  YOU'RE TOO IMMATURE TO KNOW ABOUT DRAMA IN THE FAM CUZ THEY'VE GOT TRUST ISSUES AND THEY LEAVE YOU OUT WHEN IT COMES TO NEW INFO  IT MAKES YOU FEEL LIKE YOU'RE A MISFIT AND YOU'RE NOT IN THE SAME LEAGUE AS THEM WHICH IS DOWNRIGHT RUDE AND DISCRIMINATING BUT DON'T GIVE INTO OTHER PEOPLE'S STEREOTYPES OF YOU CUZ YOU'RE BETTER THAN THEM AND YOU NEED TO BE THE BIGGER PERSON AND TELL THEM STRAIGHT UP ABOUT HOW YOU'RE AFFECTED BY ALL THE BS SURROUNDING YOU. I'M GONNA STOP RAMBLING AND GIVE Y'ALL SOME AWESOME ADVICE SO GRAB SOME PILLOWS AND BLANKETS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX AND GRAB SOME MINI ROLLS AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'DON'T BE SHY TO CALL OUT A PERSON ON HOW THEIR BEHAVIOUR IS AFFECTS YOU IF YOU THINK THAT A PERSON IS DELIBERATELY  LEAVING YOU OUT IN THE MIDDLE OF A VIDEO CALL AND THEY'RE NOT PAYING ATTENTION TO YOU WHEN THEY'VE GOT THEIR FRIENDS ON THE OTHER LINE THEN YOU SHOULD TELL THEM HOW DISRESPECTFUL THAT IS AND HOW IT MAKES YOU FEEL AWKWARD AND KINDA WEIRD IN THAT MOMENT' OOH THAT WAS QUITE HEAVY BUT SOMETIMES PEOPLE CAN BE A LITTLE BIT MESSED UP AND YOU NEED TO PUT THEM BACK IN THEIR PLACE SO THAT THEY CAN REALISE THAT THEY'RE IN THE WRONG AND THEY NEED TO KNOW THAT YOU'RE FEELING A LITTLE BIT INSECURE IN THAT MOMENT THEN YOU NEED TO FIX YOURSELF AND HAVE WORDS WITH THAT PERSON EVEN IF THEY IGNORE YOU FOR A LITTLE WHILE.  I'M GONNA GIVE Y'ALL SOME AWE INSPIRING ADVICE SO SIT BACK AND RELAX AGAINST THOSE PILLOWS AND BLANKETS THAT YOU'VE GOT NEARBY AND GRAB SOME SWEET THAI CHILLI RICE CRACKERS AND LISTEN LOUD AND CCRYSTAL CLEAR 'IT'S QUITE DISAPPOINTING WHEN YOU'RE EXCITED ABOUT SOMETHING NEW THAT A PERSON'S GOT AND YOU WANNA ASK THEM ABOUT IT AND GET ALL HYPED UP AND THEY DON'T ALLOW YOU TO DO THAT CUZ THEY DON'T WANNA LET THE WHOLE WORLD KNOW ABOUT IT WHEN ANOTHER PERSON CAN GO AND SCREAM ABOUT IT TO THEIR FAMILY MEMBERS AND YOU CAN'T BE ALL LOUD ABOUT IT THEN YOU GOTTA TELL THEM STRAIGHT UP HOW YOU WERE FEELING IN THAT MOMENT EVEN IF THE OTHER PERSON DOESN'T SPEAK TO YOU FOR AGES AFTERWARDS AND IT CAN BE UPSETTING BUT YOU HAVE TO TALK ABOUT WHAT WENT WRONG WITH THAT PERSON WHO HAS LEFT YOU OUT SO YOU CAN ALL BE ON THE SAME PAGE ABOUT IT' GOD THAT WAS JUST A LOT TO TAKE IN BUT I GUESS PEOPLE ARE SOMETIMES IGNORANT ABOUT THE FACT THAT THEY'RE MAKING YOU FEEL AWKWARD OR WEIRD IN A SPLIT SECOND OR EVEN LONGER THAN THAT AND THEN WHEN YOU'RE VOCAL ABOUT IT THEY CUT YOU OFF AND STOP CHATTING TO YOU AND THAT CAN BE HURTFUL SO SOMETIMES YOU JUST GOTTA SORT THE SITUATION OUT AND GET THROUGH TO THAT PERSON AND LET THEM KNOW THAT YOU DO LOVE THEM BUT THEY'VE CAUSED YOU PAIN AND MADE YOU UPSET WHEN YOU WANTED TO TALK TO THEM AND SOMETIMES YOU WANNA BE THE MAIN CHARACTER IN THEIR LIFE SO THEY CAN GIVE YOU THEIR UNDIVIDED ATTENTION WHEN YOU'RE CHATTING TO THEM BUT MOST OF THE TIME PEOPLE DON'T GIVE YOU THAT AND YOUR CONFIDENCE DOES GET THROWN OUT THE WINDOW AND YOUR SELF ESTEEM GETS FLUSHED DOWN THE DRAIN A LOT AND PEOPLE DON'T REALISE THAT UNTIL YOU WRITE ABOUT THEM IN YOUR PRIVATE DIARIES AND THEY ACCIDENTALLY READ IT. I'VE PROBABLY RANTED ON FOR A BIT LONGER AS USUAL BUT I'M GONNA GO BACK TO GIVING YOU GUYS A LOT OF JAW-DROPPING ADVICE SO GRAB YOUR PILLOWS AND FLUFFY BLANKETS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX AND GRAB SOME POPCORN AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'WHEN YOU TRY AND MAKE A JOKE ABOUT A SITUATION TO LIGHTEN THE MOOD EVEN IF IT ISN'T A JOKING MATTER CUZ YOU JUST WANT EVERYONE ELSE TO STOP STRESSING ABOUT IT AND THEY DON'T UNDERSTAND THAT YOU JUST WANNA MAKE EVERYONE FEEL LIGHTER AND A LITTLE BIT HAPPIER THEN YOU REALISE THAT YOU CAN'T GET INVOLVED AND ADD YOUR 3 PENCE INSIDE THE CONVERSATION THEN YOU KNOW YOU'RE LEFT OUT EVEN IF YOU'RE AN ADULT YOU KNOW YOU'RE ON THE EDGE OF THE ADULT CROWD SO IT DOESN'T MATTER IF YOU'RE NOT IN THEIR LEAGUE YOU HAVE TO JUST KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT AND LISTEN TO EVERYTHING SO THAT YOU CAN VENT TO THE PEOPLE WHO MATTER IN LIFE AND WHO'LL LISTEN TO YOU AND LEND A SHOULDER TO YOU SO YOU CAN CRY ABOUT IT CUZ YOU'LL NEVER BE ANYTHING BUT A KID IN THEIR EYES SO YOU HAVE TO JUST FIND PEN AND PAPER AND WRITE ABOUT EVERYTHING SO YOU CAN ACT AS NORMAL AS POSSIBLE' OK THIS IS A MOUNTAINFUL OF ADVICE THAT I JUST NEED TO GET OFF MY CHEST FROM ME TO YOU SO ALL I'M TRYING TO SAY IS THAT WHY DO PEOPLE THINK THAT YOU'RE INFERIOR TO THEM AND THINK JUST CUZ HE/SHE'S IMMATURE WE'RE NOT GONNA INCLUDE HER/HIM SINCE THEY CHALLENGE OR DOESN'T LISTEN TO US/THEM? MY ANSWER TO THAT IS CUZ THEY CAN'T TAKE IT WHEN WE TELL THEM SOMETHING THAT THEY DON'T LIKE FOR EXAMPLE USING GEN-ZEE ATTITUDE BUT YOU HAVE TO SAY YUR PIECE IF YOU THINK YOU'RE NOT FITTING IN SOMEWHERE OR IF YOUR PERSONALITY VIEWS OR IDEAS AND OPINIONS ARE NOT REALLY LISTENED TO MOST OF THE TIME AND IF YOU'RE GETTING IN TROUBLE CUZ OF A LITTLE HUMAN WHO CONSTANTLY TAKES UP THE SPOTLIGHT AND MAKES YOU FEEL LESS CONFIDENT THAN YOU ALREADY ARE THEN YOU GOTTA HAVE WORDS WITH THEM ON A ONE TO ONE CONVERSATION WITH THEM WITHOUT THEIR PARENTALS SO THAT THEY CAN UNDERSTAND HOW YOU'RE FEELING SOMETIMES CUZ IT GETS TOO INTENSE SOMETIMES AND IF YOU CAN'T TAKE IT THEN DON'T BE AFRAID TO CHAT ABOUT IT EVEN IF THEIR PARENTAL DISAGREES WITH YOU. OK I'VE RAMBLED ON FOR AGES SO I'M GONNA GIVE Y'ALL SOME AMAZING LAST LITTLE PIECE OF ADVICE SO GRAB YOUR FAVOURITE COMFY PAIR OF SLIPPERS/PJS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX AGAINST THOSE PILLOWS AND BLANKETS THAT YOU'VE GOT SPREAD OUT AROUND YOU AND GRAB SOME NOODLES AND CHOPSTICKS AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'NOBODY SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO UNDERMINE/UNDERESTIMATE YOU IN A SITUATION SO USE YOUR WORDS AND LET THAT PERSON/GROUP OF PEOPLE KNOW HOW YOU'VE REACTED IN THAT MOMENT SO THAT THEY KNOW THAT THEY'VE DONE SOMETHING WRONG AND YOU CAN CHOOSE TO TELL THEM EXACTLY WHAT THEY DID TO MAKE YOU FEEL LESS SUPERIOR' OOH THAT WAS A WHOLE LOAD OF ADVICE THERE CUZ I GUESS I'VE BEEN LEFT OUT A LOT IN SITUATIONS RECENTLY SO I GUESS SOMETIMES YOU JUST NEED TO WALK AWAY AND HAVE SOME ALONE TIME AND SPACE TO DEAL WITH THAT SITUATION BY YOURSELF AND THEN GO BACK TO THE FAMIGLIA-FAMILY AND JUST ACT LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED. OK I'VE TALKED FOR AGES NOW SO I'M GONNA SIGN OFF NOW AND LEAVE YOU TO CHEW ON ALL THIS ADVICE THAT I'VE GIVEN YOU.

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