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SHARING A ROOM WITH ANOTHER PERSON

  PRIVACY IS A NEED IN A YOUNG WOMAN/MAN'S LIFE BUT SOMETIMES IT'S NOT TAKEN INTO CONSIDERATION CUZ SOMEONE MIGHT HAVE MORE CONTROL WHEN IT COMES TO MAKING THE BIG DECISIONS IN THE ROOM. SOMETIMES YOUR CONTRIBUTIONS ARE PUT TOWARDS THE SMALLER THINGS WHEN IT COMES TO HAVING CREATIVE GENIUS CONTROL WHEN YOU REALLY WANT TO BE PART OF MAKING THE ROOM TO FIT YOUR STYLE. SOMETIMES YOU'LL REARRANGE A CERTAIN THING TO MAKE SPACE FOR YOURSELF SO IT MAKES YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE IN THE ROOM AND WHEN YOUR SIBLING COMES BACK FROM GOING SOMEWHERE AND TELLS YOU THAT YOU'VE MESSED UP THE VIBE OF THE ROOM IT WILL MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE YOU'VE HIT ROCK-BOTTOM WHEN THEY MAKE EXCUSES ABOUT ANXIETY EVEN THOUGH YOU'VE TRIED TO INCLUDE YOUR IDEAS INTO THE ROOM/AREA. I'VE RAMBLED ON FOR AGES BUT I'LL BE GIVING Y'ALL SOME AWE-INSPIRING ADVICE SO GRAB YOUR FAVOURITE PJS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX AGAINST ALL THE BLANKETS AND PILLOWS IN YOUR ROOM AND GRAB SOME MUFFINS AND LISTEN LOUD A...

CONFIDENT IN YOUR SKIN

  THIS IS THE MOST DIFFICULT THING TO DO WHEN SOMEONE TELLS YOU HOW UGLY YOUR SKINS LOOKS AND THE TURMOIL OF INSECURITY THAT EATS YOU UP ON THE INSIDE BUT EVERYONE'S BEAUTIFUL ON THE INSIDE AND THE OUTSIDE IN THEIR OWN WAYS SO WHY DO THEY HAVE TO MAKE DIGS AT YOU ABOUT YOUR SKIN? THE ANSWER IS CUZ THEY'RE GETTING OLD AND WRINKLY AND THEY'RE JEALOUS OF YOUR YOUNG FLAWLESS SKIN BUT DON'T TELL ANYONE THAT THEY'LL GO BERSERK. DON'T LET THE STATUS QUO TELL YOU HOW TO FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR SKIN JUST BE CONFIDENT EVEN IF THESE PEOPLE WHO CLAIM TO CARE ABOUT YOU THINK THAT YOU CAN'T HAVE CLEAR BEAUTIFUL SKIN AND GIVE YOU A WALLOPING ABOUT IT AND MAKE ALL YOUR CONFIDENCE VANISH INTO THIN AIR AND THEN CHUCK IT OUT THE WINDOW. WHO CARES IF YOU'RE SKIN IS SPOTTY FOR A BIT? THAT IS SHOWING A SIGN THAT YOU'RE ENTERING THE REALM OF TEENAGE-HOOD. IT DOESN'T MATTER TO THEM UNLESS YOU FIT IN WITH THE FAMILY INSTEAD OF DOING YOU AND NOT BLENDING IN WITH T...

ONE ON ONE TIME WITH YOURSELF

  SOMETIMES IT OFFENDS PEOPLE WHEN YOU'RE HAPPY THAT THEY'RE GOING SOMEPLACE LIKE THE SHOPS AND YOU START DANCING IN CELEBRATION BUT THEY DON'T UNDERSTAND SOMETIMES YOU LIKE YOUR TIME TO JUST DESTRESS BY YOURSELF WITH NO ONE ELSE IN THE ROOM.  IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT IF YOU WANNA HAVE A BREAK FROM THE INSTRUCTIONS BEING FIRED AT YOU LIKE A MACHINE GUN AND IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT IF YOU'VE GOT A DARK SENSE OF HUMOUR AND YOU'RE JUST JOKING. HAVING ONE ON ONE TIME WITH YOURSELF ALLOWS YOU TO JUST HAVE A GOOD TIME WITHOUT WORRYING ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE ARE GONNA SAY TO YOU. ANYWAY I'VE RAMBLED ENOUGH SO I'M GONNA GIVE Y'ALL SOME WORDS OF INSPIRATION SO GRAB THOSE PILLOWS AND BLANKETS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX, GRAB SOME CHEESESTRING AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'DON'T EVER CHEER OR GET HAPPY WHEN THE PARENTALS ARE GOING SOMEWHERE CUZ THEN YOU'LL BE STUCK IN A LITTLE BIT OF TROUBLE SO YOU SHOULD JUST SAY OKAY AND PARTAY WHEN THEY'RE GONE...

MAN TANTRUMS

  THEY'RE EXPLOSIVE AND THEY CAN UPSET A PERSON WHO REALLY CARES ABOUT YOU. THEY UNLEASH A WAVE OF UNNATURAL RAGE THAT CAN'T BE TAMED ONCE IT COMES OUT AND SETS EVERYTHING THE PERSON TOUCHES ON FIRE. I'VE ENCOUNTERED THEM FIRST HAND AND THE FIRST THING THAT TRIGGERS IT IS STRESS.  WHY CAN'T SOMEONE TAKE A DEEP BREATH AND KEEP THE POWER OF ANGER UNDER CONTROL? ONCE A PERSON IS CHEESED OFF THERE'S NO STOPPING THEM CUZ THEY SNAP LIKE AN ELASTIC BAND UNTIL THEY CAN'T BE A PATIENT PERSON ANYMORE. SOMETIMES A PERSON HASN'T EVEN DONE ANYTHING TO ANOTHER PERSON AND THEN THIS THUNDERCLAP OF ANGER GOES OFF IN THE OTHER PERSON'S SYSTEM AND THEY JUST EXPLODE LIKE A GRENADE WHEN THEY GET ASKED A SIMPLE QUESTION THEY CAN'T ANSWER. OKAY I'VE RAMBLED FOR A LITTLE WHILE SO I'M GONNA GIVE Y'ALL SOME MIND-BLOWING ADVICE SO GRAB SOME BLANKETS AND PILLOWS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX AND GRAB SOME CHOCOLATE FINGERS AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'IF SOMEONE ...

SIGHING TO LET ALL THE TENSION OUT

  PEOPLE THAT YOU TRUST AND CARE ABOUT THINK IT'S DISRESPECTFUL BUT IT'S NOT WHEN TWO PEOPLE ARE FIRING A WHOLE LOAD OF INSTRUCTIONS AT YOU AND THEN YOU FEEL LIKE YOU'RE DROWNING IN ORDERS AND DEMANDS AND THAT ONE SIGH OF RELIEVING ALL THE TENSION THAT'S WEIGHING YOU DOWN SO YOU CAN JUST LET LOOSE AND TAKE IT EASY AND SOME PEOPLE WON'T UNDERSTAND THAT. ANYWAY I'M GONNA STOP RAMBLING AND GIVE Y'ALL SOME MIND-BLOWING ADVICE SO GRAB SOME BLANKETS AND PILLOWS AND GRAB SOME MINI BURGERS AND SIT BACK, RELAX AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'WHEN YOU LET OUT THAT BREATH YOU'RE HOLDING IN CUZ SOMEONE'S GIVING YOU A HARD TIME ABOUT SOMETHING THAT'S QUITE STUPID DUMB AND CRAZY AND YOU SIGH IT'LL ALLOW YOU TO RELEASE ALL THOSE FEELINGS OF ANXIETY AND PENT UP ANGST THAT YOU CAN'T ALWAYS PUT INTO WORDS SINCE PEOPLE MIGHT NOT GIVE YOU THE TIME OF DAY TO LEND YOU A LISTENING EAR SO DON'T GET TOO WOUND UP IF YOU WALK THROUGH A FLAME OF TROUBLE A...

PEOPLE SNOOPING IN YOUR DIARY

  IT'S MORTIFYING WHEN YOU FIND OUT SOMEONE'S READ YOUR PRIVATE THOUGHTS ABOUT THEM THAT YOU'RE KEEPING IN YOUR HEAD SO THAT YOU CAN WRITE IT DOWN LATER WHEN NOBODY'S THERE. WHEN SOMEONE CLOSE TO YOU READS YOUR MOST PRIVATE THOUGHTS THAT YOU'VE WRITTEN ON THE PAGE THAT YOU THOUGHT THAT WOULD NEVER BE OPENED AND READ JUST CUZ THEY WERE LOOKING FOR PAPER AND THEN THEY COME AND GIVE YOU A SHITTY MEANINGLESS APOLOGY JUST CUZ THEY'VE READ THE TRUTH AND THEN THEY TELL YOU THAT THEY'RE FEELING BAD ABOUT WHAT YOU'VE WROTE ABOUT THEM YOU SHOULDN'T BE FEELING ASHAMED BECAUSE THAT WAS YOUR SPACE WHERE YOU WROTE ABOUT THE THINGS THAT BOTHER YOU ON A DAILY BASIS. ANYWAY I'VE BEEN RAMBLING FOR AGES SINCE IT REALLY PISSES ME OFF THAT SOMEONE HAS NO BOUNDARIES WHEN IT COMES TO NOSINESS BUT I'M GONNA LAY DOWN SOME AWESOME WORDS OF MIND-BLOWING ADVICE SO GRAB THOSE PILLOWS AND BLANKETS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX AND GRAB SOME CAKE AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR...

KEEPIN' IT REAL

  BRUTAL HONESTY IS THE KEY FOR KEEPIN' IT REAL SO IF YOU CAN'T TAKE THE HEAT YOU BETTER FIND A HIDING SPOT IN THE SHADOWS TO CONCEAL YOUR FEAR. IF YOU WANNA KEEP IT REAL YOU HAVE TO ALWAYS TELL PEOPLE THINGS STRAIGHT UP EVEN IF THAT MEANS YOU'VE GOT NO FILTER WHEN IT COMES TO TELLING PEOPLE SOMETIMES PEOPLE WILL TELL YOU YOU'VE GOT A BIG MOUTH BUT YOU'VE GOTTA TELL PEOPLE THINGS TO THEIR FACES RATHER THAN GO BITCH ABOUT THEM BEHIND THEIR BACKS SO THAT YOU CAN BE 100 PERCENT TRANSPARENT WITH THEM. YOU'VE GOTTA FORGET ABOUT OFFENDING PEOPLE EVEN THOUGH THE TRUTH HURTS AND IT HITS YOU LIKE A PUNCH IN THE GUT. OR MAYBE IT SPLASHES YOU IN THE FACE LIKE A COLD BUCKET OF ICE WATER. IT MIGHT BURN A FEW BRIDGES BETWEEN YOU AND THE PEOPLE WHO'VE TRUSTED YOU WITH SECRETS AND TRUTHS IF YOU TELL OTHER PEOPLE ABOUT THINGS IN CONFIDENCE. ANYWAY I'VE RAMBLED ON FOR AGES SO I'M  GONNA GIVE YOU GUYS SOME BEAUTIFUL WORDS OF WISDOM SO GRAB SOME PILLOWS AND SIT BACK AND...