STARTING A NEW CHAPTER

 Hey readers,

The past can change you, It can destroy you. It can hurt like someone's drowned you, and you can't come up for air. You need to push forward everyday. It can be so difficult just to get out of bed. You can overthink as much as you want. You can't do things differently. You can't change anything. Climb the mountain of change. Live in the heat of the moment. There's only room for the mystery of the present. There's only room for the hopefulness of the future. Don't go into a dark hole. Surround yourself with your No.1's. 

Now grab your Nesquik  cups, and sit back and relax against those fluffy pillows/blankets, and listen loud and crystal clear; 'Get everything off your chest. It doesn't matter who the person is. Today and Tomorrow are two different days. Everything from Yesterday will have been thrown away in the back of people's minds.' Ooh that was a lot! I just think that opening up to a person who doesn't get offended is the best way to start off. Go as slow as you want. Only focus on the people who are there for you. The one's who care. The one's who'll love and support you no matter what. Clear your mind. Take deep breaths. In through the nose/out through the mouth. 

Most importantly you guys need to relax yourselves as much as possible. Starting a new chapter in your life takes time. So don't worry about it. Also a person who you're super close to needs to do a lot of explaining. They need to give you past situations to see how they move on. Okay i'm gonna stop blabbering on now. Grab your favourite loungewear/PJ's and sit against those pillows, grab some sweet and salty popcorn, and listen loud and crystal clear; 'Don't take on too much stress while moving on. It can take so much time for a person to get over things. Even if you don't have a medical condition. Just say as normal as possible. Tell your problems to someone who can sort it out. Stay as cool as a cucumber.' 

Whoa that was a bit of a mouthful right there. Just always remember to take it one step at a time. God works in mysterious ways. Just keep the faith, chat to him/her. He helps us by giving us the people who support us in tough times. These people are the angels he sends to guide/help us in difficult times. Continue to pray/chat to God. You need him to get you through everything as I've learnt. Everything that comes your way. I think that you've gotta be able to manage how much you open up to a person. I've been speaking about this so much to the male parental. 

It's always easier to learn to respect a person's decisions. Especially when it comes to the more serious things in life. I'm a hyper crazy person. I know that I'm rambling quite a bit, but I'll definitely lay down some awe-inspiring advice. Sit back against those throw-blankets/pillows; grab some tuna-mayo sandwiches, listen loud and crystal clear 'You never need to panic. Things happen. They get sorted out eventually. Don't worry about the trivial things in life.' A very special person told me that. My male parental has helped me a lot. Shout out to him! Basically it's about calming the heck down. I learnt some valuable lessons today. I couldn't find some stuff, so I panicked, I just didn't inhale/exhale from the nose area. Everything is going to be a-okay. 

Starting new, and forgetting the past is super difficult. When things happen you just need to focus on yourself/your health at the end of the day. You have to go to the parentals all the time. They will know what to do. If they don't have the know-how, go to a bro-in-law/a sis-in-law, go to your siblings/aunties/uncles/cousins. Don't bottle it up. You'll explode like a grenade when you take the pin out if you don't clarify with others. Don't fall into the traps of your mind and thing about all the bullshit that's happened before. Don't think about 'don't move on' the song from Confessions of a Teenage Drama Queen. Think about always getting on with it. 

Okie Dokie I've rambled on for ages. Let me give y'all the super duper advice out there! Grab your favourite pair of loungewear/P.J's, grab a nice quilted blanket, comfy pillows, a bowl of Sticky Toffee Pudding, and listen loud and crystal clear 'Always speak up. Don't ever keep yourselves to yourselves for months on end. I did it. It wasn't amazing. You NEVER need to worry about changing yourself for anybody. You do you. You can only do things differently if you talk about them. You have to open up like a social butterfly to the world.' 

Whoa. That was a huge bit of advice. Take your time poring over it. Another thing is just keep on telling people how you can and can't see when they're chatting to you. It makes it so much easier; if you don't have the best peripheral vision in the world. You have to knock down your walls. Slowly, but surely the façade, and the fake it till you make it will go away. You have to unfurl the petals of the flower that you've closed yourself up in. Come out and roar like a lioness/lion. Scream! Punch a wall. That's if it makes you feel better. No one wants to be a Debbie Downer do they? 

While starting this new chapter in your life, it's important to say how you're feeling physically/emotionally/mentally in a situation. Don't hide behind your tough cookie exterior. No one's gonna be able to sort your shit out if you don't. You have to have your shit together. Sometimes it might not come all together. Remember it's still a work in progress. Stress isn't good for the health so why are we stressing about the past? It's just the case of overthinking. Don't let it get to you. If you're a special person people will treat you in a more understanding way. You have to go on drives to chat about starting new chapters in life. They're the best things in life. You just sit there eating all the munchies, and you chat about the most random things that make sense in the sitch. 

I've done it again. I've rambled on for too long. Just don't hide behind the secret door of ivy. Don't fall prey to the curtain of hair that you can hide underneath. You can't live in the darkened walls of the shadows. You have to own the stage of life. Come out into the spotlight. Walk the walk, Talk the talk. 

I'll leave you to chew on this advice/guidance. 

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