RINGING PEOPLE WHEN THEY SAY YOU CAN CALL ANYTIME

 I'VE BEEN TO TELLINGVILLE AND BACK ABOUT THIS SINCE YESTERDAY AND IT'S PISSING ME OFF NOW CUZ MY FAMIGLIA SAID I CAN RING THEM ANYTIME WHENEVER I WANT AND IT'S SO ANNOYING WHEN YOU'RE ILL AND YOU CAN'T EVEN CONNECT WITH THE PEOPLE THAT MAKE YOU HAPPY FOR AS LONG AS YOU WANT TO FORGET ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE'S BULLSHIT AND YOU'RE TRYING TO FORGET ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE'S SHITTY COMMUNICATION SKILLS THAT MAKE YOU UPSET MOST OF THE TIME CUZ THEY DON'T KNOW HOW TO STOP THIS WHOLE BREATHING DOWN YOUR NECK SHENNANIGANS THAT HAPPEN WHEN PEOPLE TRY TO  USE ON YOU WHEN THEY'RE JUST TRYING TO LOOK OUT FOR YOU. ANYWAY I'LL STOP GETTING TOO PERSONAL RIGHT NOW AND GO BACK INTO THE GENERALISATION OF IT ALL SO I'LL BE LAYING DOWN SOME AWE-INSPIRING ADVICE SO GRAB YOUR FAVOURITE PAIR OF PJS/LOUNGEWEAR AND GRAB SOME PILLOWS AND FLUFFY BLANKETS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'WHEN YOU'RE GETTING A SUPPORT NETWORK OF LOVELY PEOPLE IN THE FAMIGLIA WHO TELL YOU THEY'RE THERE FOR YOU 24/7 AND YOU'RE ALWAYS RINGING AND OTHER PEOPLE WHO ARE CONSTANTLY ON YOUR CASE ARE LIKE STOP RINGING ALL THE TIME WHEN NO ONE HAS GIVEN YOU A SPECIFIC TIME TO RING AND YOU'RE LIKE THEY'VE TOLD ME I CAN RING ANYTIME JUST IGNORE IT AND CARRY ON CHATTING TO THE PEOPLE THAT MAKE YOU HAPPY AND TAKE YOUR MIND OFF WHATEVER CRAZY LIFE-ALTERING THING YOUR GOING THROUGH CUZ IT HELPS SO MUCH' OOH THAT WAS A HUGE BIT OF ADVICE BUT ONE TOO MANY PEOPLE CAN GANG UP ON YOU AND TELL YOU NOT TO CALL TOO MUCH IF SOMEONE ON THE CALL IS SAYING THEY'RE TIRED LIKE 3-4 TIMES THEN YOU AS A PERSON WANNA CHAT TO THEM FOR LONGER SINCE YOU GET SUPER BORED IN THE HOUSE ON YOUR ONES CUZ IT'S HARD TO BE IN THE HOUSE A LOT BY YOURSELF WHEN EVERYONE'S GOING HERE THERE AND EVERYWHERE IN THEIR OWN DAILY LIVES. SOMETIMES OTHER PEOPLE GET STRESSSED OUT AND START EXPLAINING EVERYTHING YOU'RE  NOT DOING CORRECTLY AS YOU'VE GOT TO LIVE UP TO ROLE-MODELS OF PERFECTION IF YOU HAVE OLDER SIBLINGS AND IT'S JUST NICE TO TALK ABOUT OTHER THINGS ON THE PHONE WITH PEOPLESINCE DIFFERENT PEOPLE WILL BE ABLE TO  BE ON YOUR LEVEL AND YOU'RE ALLOWED TO VOICE YOUR OPINIONS AND THOUGHTS WITH A WHOLE NEW PERSON WHO YOU DON'T CHAT TO EVERYDAY. OOH I'VE RAMBLED ON A BIT TOO MUCH NOW SINCE I WAS GOING INTO RANT MODE A LITTLE BIT BUT I'LL GIVE Y'ALL SOME GROUND BREAKING ADVICE SO GRAB THOSE AMAZING QUIRKY HOODIES AND YOUR FAVOURITE PAIR OF JOGGERS AND GRAB SOME PILLOWS AND BLANKETS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX WITH SOME MALTEASERS MCFLURRY AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'IT'S NOT A HUGE DEAL IF YOU PAY FOR YOUR OWN PHONE AND EVERYTHING'S ON YOUR OWN NAME SO WHEN OTHER PEOPLE PUT THEIR TWO/THREE PENCE IN THE CONVERSATION AND SAY YOU DON'T LET PEOPLE GO OFF THE PHONE QUICKLY IT SHOULDN'T BE A BIG DEAL SO JUST TELL THEM THAT CHATTING TO PEOPLE MAKES ME FEEL CONNECTED TO MY FAMILY CUZ YOU MIGHT NOT GET WHAT I'M TRYING TO SAY.  JUST DON'T CHAT TOO MUCH SINCE IT'LL TURN INTO A HUGE DISAGREEMENT THAT WILL LAND YOU IN TELLINGVILLE SO JUST LISTEN AND RANT ABOUT IT LATER TO YOUR COUSINS AND OTHER RELATIVES WHO LIKE YOU FOR YOU AND DON'T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH YOU TALKING TO THEM FOR AGES.' OOH THIS WAS A HUGE DUMP OF ADVICE BUT IT'S THAT WHOLE IDEA OF TAKING YOUR MIND OFF A CHALLENGING SITUATION IT HELPS TO GET ADVICE AND GUIDANCE FROM THEM IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO IN THAT SITUATION WHICH IS AMAZING CUZ YOU CAN ACT ON THAT ADVICE AND TRY AND COMMUNICATE BETTER WITH YOUR SIBLINGS IN A WAY. I JUST HAD A CONVERSATION WITH THE MASTER ABOUT GETTING SOME ADVICE CUZ SHE'S BEEN THERE FOR SOMEONE IN A DIFFICULT SITUATION AND I WAS REALLY OPENING UP AND SAYING WHATEVER I NEEDED TO SAY WITHOUT GETTING IN TROUBLE. OKAY LET'S GET BACK TO THE MORE GENERAL POINT OF VIEW NOW CUZ PEOPLE DON'T HAVE THE SENSE TO UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU'RE GOING THROUGH IF YOU'RE SAYING I'M FINE JUST TO ENSURE THAT EVERYONE'S OKAY WHEN YOU'RE DOWN IN THE DUMPS ABOUT SOMETHING YOU DIDN'T EVEN MEAN TO DO LIKE TRYING TO ASSERT YOUR VOICE BUT IT GETS TAKEN IN THE WRONG WAY BUT ON A CALL WITH SOMEONE WHO LIKES YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE YOU CAN CHAT AS MUCH AS YOU WANT CUZ IT'S REFRESHING TO GET A NEW INSIGHT FROM THE PEOPLE WHO LOVE YOU. ANYWAY I'VE RAMBLED ON QUITE A BIT SO I NEED TO GIVE Y'ALL SOME MORE AWESOME ADVICE SO GRAB YOUR FAVOURITE PAIR OF LOUNGEWEAR/PJS AND GRAB ALL THOSE FLUFFY PILLOWS AND BLANKETS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX WITH AN OREO ICE CREAM SANDWICH AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'WHEN YOU'RE ON THE PHONE TO A PERSON WHO GETS YOU ON ANOTHER LEVEL IT'S A DIFFERENT VIBE CUZ YOU KNOW THEY'LL BE ABLE TO GIVE YOU THE BEST TYPE OF TALK SO DO RING THEM NOW AND THEN TO HAVE THAT HOUR OR FIVE-TEN MINUTES AT LEAST TO GET EVERYTHING OFF YOUR CHEST SO YOU CAN USE THAT LITTLE BIT OF CHAT TO COMMUNICATE BETTER WITH YOUR SIBLINGS AMAZINGLY WELL AND HAVE A CLOSE RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM AS YOU EXPLAIN YOURSELF TO THEM EACH TIME YOU THINK YOU'RE GETTING IN HEAPS OF TROUBLE WHEN YOU'RE NOT.  ALSO SPEAKING TO ANOTHER 3RD PARTY MEMBER WHO'S OUTSIDE OF YOUR FAMILY CAN BE REALLY HELPFUL SO GET THAT SUPPORT/GUIDANCE/ADVICE FROM WHOEVER YOU'RE MOST COMFORTABLE SPEAKING TO ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS' OKAY I'VE RAMBLED ON FOR QUITE A BIT BUT IT'S NOT THE SAME WHEN THE PARENTALS ARE TRYING TO TELL ME STUFF THEY EXPLAIN IT DIFFERENTLY AND BOTH PARENTS ARE NOT THE SAME ONE OF THEM CAN BE MORE OPEN AND UNDERSTANDING THAN THE OTHER ONE BUT IT'S ALL ABOUT GETTING YOUR VIEWS AND IDEAS ACROSS IN THE MOST RESPECTFUL WAY POSSIBLE. ANYWAY BACK TO THE MAIN TOPIC AT HAND TALKING ON THE PHONE IS REALLY HELPFUL CUZ SOMEONE CAN GIVE YOU THE CHANCE TO VOICE YOUR OPINIONS WITHOUT OFFENDING THEM IN ANY WAY SHAPE AND FORM. BUT FOR ME AS A COMPLETELY 5TH-6TH PARTY MEMBER TALKING TO PEOPLE HELPS TO KEEP THAT SUPPORT NETWORK OPEN BETWEEN YOU AND THE FAMILY THAT'S CLOSEST TO YOU AT THE END OF THE DAY. I'LL LET YOU GUYS CHEW ON THAT FOR SOME TIME TO REALLY RELATE TO THIS TOPIC. SO I'M GONNA LEAVE Y'ALL TO THINK THIS OVER TOO MUCH. 

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