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ON DEFENSE/SIGHING

 Hey awesome The Next Step fans, Being on defense isn't a good look in other people's eyes. This is the number 1 way to dig your trench from England to no-man's-land. Sighing is the way to go to relieve your stress and pent up anxiety, it's a great technique to calm down through letting your breath go, but it can land you deep in the swirling whirlpool of trouble that you attract like a moth to a flame. Cliche analogy much? Yeah, but letting your inner teen out can be a cover for keeping your guard up and not letting anyone barrel through it and smash all your defensive bravado to the ground, until you're left vulnerable and open to getting punched in the gut, by so many words that you don't even know how to handle while all the conflict comes flying at you like a ton of bricks. Standing up for yourself/advocating on behalf of yourself to appear confident and have high self-esteem isn't gonna work when you're being ambushed left right and centre by peopl...

RAMBLING- A.K.A LAWAARAA

 Hey Lilo and Stitch Fans, Rambling is a big deal to some people. You don't even know that's what you're doing until it's too late. You do it nervously, or in excitement, and even in a panicked state of mind. Then you'll be labelled as being too much, too annoying, and a pain in the ass. You'll get shut down, shut up, keep quiet, and other lines that will flush your confidence down the toilet, and throw your self-esteem out the window. You know that carefully constructed tower of self-worth/belief in yourself crumbles down to the literal ground until you're swimming in rubble. You lie amidst the rubble and question who you are and how you managed to sink so deep into the quicksand for trouble-makers 101. What did you do that makes a person have disappointment for you in their eyes that are the windows to their complicated souls? Are you that socially awkward that you can't keep all the words under lock and key?  Is it worth it if you lose your voice in t...

DUBAI 2.0

 Hey Potterheads, Dubai Bling Round 2. It was a chilled out version this time around. I only went to 2 places this time cuz the heat was stifling. The blazing heat was unbearable to sit in during the day. You could only go sight-seeing at night time. I visited the Shaikh Zahid mosque in Abu-Dhabi it was a magnificent view. I walked around unlike last time when I was cruising around in a wheelchair. I saw the humongous chandeliers and other architecture that just floors you. It is beyond anyone's imagination how they built such an impressive structure. Other times I just chilled at the house I was staying in. The pool was the highlight of the whole trip. The water was warm and I had a really fun time splashing around while sitting on the steps of the pool.  Spending Eid day in another country was an experience that I'll never forget. Doing sheep activities was so enjoyable and relaxing. Taking lots of pictures with my sister and nieces was a chance to make memories to remember ...

GANGED UP ON IN THE VERBAL SENSE

 Hey Wolfblood fans, Humankind experiences this in the form of bullying, but it can happen in the conversational sense too. It can make you question so many things about who you are. It's a testament of how strong you are on the outside and not letting a person or group of people raise your Richter Scale of anxiety go through the roof. It's gonna put you on the opposite side of the fence between you and other familial members if it's in house. Getting the wind knocked out of your lungs by words isn't in your best interests it can make you become drained of outer confidence, but there's a chance you can take it personally cuz you're stumped and don't know what to do in that situation. It's like you're that rabbit in Zootropolis cornered by a predator closing in on you. I know it's a messed  sup metaphor, but it puts you in the zone of being unsure of yourself and your confident vocal side. I's like you're entering the lion's den and yo...

EGYPTIAN ASIAN WEDDING-AN UNFORGETTABLE EXPERIENCE

 Hey Crazy cat lovers, It was an amazing week to experience culture , and make exciting new memories. Going to a destination wedding brings you a chance to travel and explore a city in a new and unexpected way. It allows you to have the opportunity to spend time with family members that you don't see every day. The time you spend with each other makes the connection stronger. Before you go, there's a level of excitement that you look forward to going to a different country. Going through security and becoming an international citizen when they're stamping your passport. Going in the plane and fastening your seatbelt  while the plane is taking off. Watching on the mini screens to pass the time while you're in the air is a wonderful experience. Travelling in style in a wheelchair was the highlight of my experience in the airport. Airports can be a tiring experience for most people, but the journey to your accommodation gives you the chance to look forward to resting and r...

DUBAI-BLING OR DUBAI DAARCHAAWAL

 Hey awesome people. It's been a while. I've been in the UAE (United Arab Emirates). Dubai is a country that might not be everyone's cup of tea to live there, but as a holiday destination it's a magnificent place to be in. There's so many exciting spots to visit and hang out in. Dubai Mall is a humongous mall that is heaving with people, they come at you left right and center. It's a perfect place for the rich and famous to shop 'til they literally drop. The main attraction in that mall would be the sharks in the tanks, which was so cool, I did face my fear a little even though I'm still terrified of them. This was a great moment for videography and photography for my phone camera. Then when you come out of the mall there's the fountain which is a 'WOW' factor with all the lights and shows that go on at night. Behind that you can see the Burj Khalifa which was awesome, it's taller than me! I saw it light up in a million different colours....

COMPARISONS BETWEEN YOURSELF AND ANOTHER

 Hey XO Kitty fans, We're back to the business of giving mind-blowing/inspiring advice, so buckle up and enjoy the rocky ride to figuring it all out. First of all 'new year new you' is going around now that we're halfway through January. It's not a thing that you consciously do, it just happens sometimes. It's not like you're hating on a person or being a hater, sometimes you just don't think you're adequate enough to be the greatest human out there. Being able to find your own flaws and comparing yourself to another is putting yourself in a sticky situation. It's about being able to find out what strengths and differences you have between you and another person and how you can be like them or be a self-improved person that's better than them. You're not trying to be superior, but you wanna make a person like you for who you are as a person and not put you down for your unique one-of-a-kind persona. It might get you sinking your entire bo...