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BADASS RUDENESS ON ANOTHER LEVEL- EVEN BANTER AT IT'S FINEST

 Hey guys, been a long time, been busy reading to get inspiration. Anyway, this is a topic that I rage on 99.9% of the time. No lie! It's not about being rude it's about being sure of yourself, so you can assert yourself in a way where you have confidence oozing our of your persona. You gotta use your words to impress and go out in style or with a bang. Yes your mouth will get you in trouble at times, mine does more or less, but don't let it faze you, you have to own it in a way. It's not about being bitchy to a certain extent. It's about letting those around you who will undermine you to show them who's boss without giving off the vibe that they intimidate you on a level. So by all means you can be as high or mighty as you wanna be. When it comes to banter it's the balance of wounding an opponent in the field or having the upper hand in a situation which one will you take? I'm taking both under my belt, to be honest. Anyway I'll stop wasting time by...

HAVING A PLATFORM WHERE YOUR VOICE IS HEARD IF IT GETS SHUT DOWN CONSTANTLY

 Hey guys, it's been a while. It's back to business as usual. This is a topic that's kinda close to home. Many of you may have this inner narrative where you don't speak much cuz people are always shushing you now and again. It's gotta stop! I don't know if this gets your blood boiling, but it sure as hell can get personal so just ride out the storm with the calmness. Anyway, I'll stop rambling and give y'all some awesome advice so sit back, relax against those fluffy pillows of yours, grab some cheese twists, wear your favourite pair of loungewear, PJ's/Joggers/T-shirt/hoodie, and listen loud and crystal clear 'You need to speak your truth cuz keeping everything down in the darkness will make you spill into the void and you don't wanna become the voiceless so being on platforms such as the BMF (Big Mouth Forum), or any other platform such as social media will help you to crawl out of your shell and blossom from a caterpillar into a butterfly...

THE FAMOUS MARCUS EATON LINE ('THIS IS FOR YOUR OWN GOOD')

 Guys It's back to business as usual, I hate this line as it just puts you off. It's a sign that you're not good enough for someone, when in face you are number 1. Trust me, it just sinks in like that nagging nauseous feeling that sits in the pit of your stomach. Maybe it's that nailbiting anxiety that eats away at you, when those words tell you you'll amount to nothing. This line is harsh to hear once or twice a day. Guys it's not too late to tell someone that hearing this line makes you feel inadequate. Okay I'll stop rambling now. I'm gonna give you some mind-blowing advice, so sit back/relax, grab those fluffy cushions/pillows, wear your favourite PJ's/Loungewear/Joggers and T-shirts, grab a bowl of Cookie Crisp, and listen loud and crystal clear. 'Find an escape before it's too late. It could be drawing/writing/watching. Fall into someone else's world when yours is turned upside down to forget about the cruel reality of the truth hit...

NEW YEAR, NEW YOU.

Fireworks have gone off. You've written a whole list of resolutions. What's next? Maybe it's the time for you to become a changed person. Nah this is a crazy saying. The person you are should shine through everytime. Who cares if some people can't accept your unique, one of a kind personality? It's their loss at the end of the day. Nobody can become picture perfection overnight. Some people's standards/expectations are too high. We're not MegaMind. We're human beings, not superhuman like Matt Murdock, Jessica Jones, Luke Cage, or Frank Castle. We're ordinary human beings who can make a difference in life if we wanna take that step. I'm not saying changing yourself is a bad thing, everyone needs to assess and improve their character. I'm just saying don't change your amazing self to please other people.  OMG. I rambled on for ages now. I just wanna fill your ears/hearts with some awe inspiring advice, so sit back/relax against those fluffy...

SABR-AKA PATIENCE

 Hey it's me again, Back to business now as I've been inspired by the male parental. He talked about the prophet spreading the message to a city called Taif. The people didn't listen to that message. An angel appeared before him. He asked him 'Oh Prophet shall I ask God to  crush them with the mountains?' The prophet replies 'no because their children will learn the lessons I teach.' This is why we should always calm down in times of panic mode. This adult life is hard. You gotta be as cool as a cucumber. Not too hyper.  This is what I've learnt from the programme on Netflix Resurrection Ertugrul taught me. That family spread the message of Islam from Turkey throughout the Ottoman Empire. The beys led the simple life. I've rambled on for ages now. I'll put down some gob-smacking advice, so sit back and relax against those recliners I know you have, grab some brownies, be Bruce Bogtrotter, and listen loud and crystal clear 'No one can be judge...

ACCESSIBILITY

 This is a very important thing for me. I have a Visual Impairment. It affects how I read on screens. Different people need to realise this. I think that every site/digital print should have these features for people such as V.I/Dyslexia/Colour Blindness. I use different features such as Black backgrounds with White writing on them. This is quite accessible for me. Some sites/digital print fails tests such as accessibility tests. Recently a site called: https://www.juicedroplet.com/ failed this test. It would need a lot of improvements to make it accessible. I wrote an article about it. It is an enjoyable experience. I sent it over to a cousin who runs the platform for South Asians all around the globe. It's a worldwide thing! I use different software called Zoomtext/Dragon/MindView. These allow me to read sites/digital print back to you easily. I think voiceovers and talking to the Word doc you're using, allows you to have a hands free/strain free time on the screen. Other peo...

STARTING A NEW CHAPTER

 Hey readers, The past can change you, It can destroy you. It can hurt like someone's drowned you, and you can't come up for air. You need to push forward everyday. It can be so difficult just to get out of bed. You can overthink as much as you want. You can't do things differently. You can't change anything. Climb the mountain of change. Live in the heat of the moment. There's only room for the mystery of the present. There's only room for the hopefulness of the future. Don't go into a dark hole. Surround yourself with your No.1's.  Now grab your Nesquik  cups, and sit back and relax against those fluffy pillows/blankets, and listen loud and crystal clear; 'Get everything off your chest. It doesn't matter who the person is. Today and Tomorrow are two different days. Everything from Yesterday will have been thrown away in the back of people's minds.' Ooh that was a lot! I just think that opening up to a person who doesn't get offended...