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THE FAMOUS MARCUS EATON LINE ('THIS IS FOR YOUR OWN GOOD')

 Guys It's back to business as usual, I hate this line as it just puts you off. It's a sign that you're not good enough for someone, when in face you are number 1. Trust me, it just sinks in like that nagging nauseous feeling that sits in the pit of your stomach. Maybe it's that nailbiting anxiety that eats away at you, when those words tell you you'll amount to nothing. This line is harsh to hear once or twice a day. Guys it's not too late to tell someone that hearing this line makes you feel inadequate. Okay I'll stop rambling now. I'm gonna give you some mind-blowing advice, so sit back/relax, grab those fluffy cushions/pillows, wear your favourite PJ's/Loungewear/Joggers and T-shirts, grab a bowl of Cookie Crisp, and listen loud and crystal clear. 'Find an escape before it's too late. It could be drawing/writing/watching. Fall into someone else's world when yours is turned upside down to forget about the cruel reality of the truth hit...

NEW YEAR, NEW YOU.

Fireworks have gone off. You've written a whole list of resolutions. What's next? Maybe it's the time for you to become a changed person. Nah this is a crazy saying. The person you are should shine through everytime. Who cares if some people can't accept your unique, one of a kind personality? It's their loss at the end of the day. Nobody can become picture perfection overnight. Some people's standards/expectations are too high. We're not MegaMind. We're human beings, not superhuman like Matt Murdock, Jessica Jones, Luke Cage, or Frank Castle. We're ordinary human beings who can make a difference in life if we wanna take that step. I'm not saying changing yourself is a bad thing, everyone needs to assess and improve their character. I'm just saying don't change your amazing self to please other people.  OMG. I rambled on for ages now. I just wanna fill your ears/hearts with some awe inspiring advice, so sit back/relax against those fluffy...

SABR-AKA PATIENCE

 Hey it's me again, Back to business now as I've been inspired by the male parental. He talked about the prophet spreading the message to a city called Taif. The people didn't listen to that message. An angel appeared before him. He asked him 'Oh Prophet shall I ask God to  crush them with the mountains?' The prophet replies 'no because their children will learn the lessons I teach.' This is why we should always calm down in times of panic mode. This adult life is hard. You gotta be as cool as a cucumber. Not too hyper.  This is what I've learnt from the programme on Netflix Resurrection Ertugrul taught me. That family spread the message of Islam from Turkey throughout the Ottoman Empire. The beys led the simple life. I've rambled on for ages now. I'll put down some gob-smacking advice, so sit back and relax against those recliners I know you have, grab some brownies, be Bruce Bogtrotter, and listen loud and crystal clear 'No one can be judge...

ACCESSIBILITY

 This is a very important thing for me. I have a Visual Impairment. It affects how I read on screens. Different people need to realise this. I think that every site/digital print should have these features for people such as V.I/Dyslexia/Colour Blindness. I use different features such as Black backgrounds with White writing on them. This is quite accessible for me. Some sites/digital print fails tests such as accessibility tests. Recently a site called: https://www.juicedroplet.com/ failed this test. It would need a lot of improvements to make it accessible. I wrote an article about it. It is an enjoyable experience. I sent it over to a cousin who runs the platform for South Asians all around the globe. It's a worldwide thing! I use different software called Zoomtext/Dragon/MindView. These allow me to read sites/digital print back to you easily. I think voiceovers and talking to the Word doc you're using, allows you to have a hands free/strain free time on the screen. Other peo...

STARTING A NEW CHAPTER

 Hey readers, The past can change you, It can destroy you. It can hurt like someone's drowned you, and you can't come up for air. You need to push forward everyday. It can be so difficult just to get out of bed. You can overthink as much as you want. You can't do things differently. You can't change anything. Climb the mountain of change. Live in the heat of the moment. There's only room for the mystery of the present. There's only room for the hopefulness of the future. Don't go into a dark hole. Surround yourself with your No.1's.  Now grab your Nesquik  cups, and sit back and relax against those fluffy pillows/blankets, and listen loud and crystal clear; 'Get everything off your chest. It doesn't matter who the person is. Today and Tomorrow are two different days. Everything from Yesterday will have been thrown away in the back of people's minds.' Ooh that was a lot! I just think that opening up to a person who doesn't get offended...

RINGING PEOPLE WHEN THEY SAY YOU CAN CALL ANYTIME

  I'VE BEEN TO TELLINGVILLE AND BACK ABOUT THIS SINCE YESTERDAY AND IT'S PISSING ME OFF NOW CUZ MY FAMIGLIA SAID I CAN RING THEM ANYTIME WHENEVER I WANT AND IT'S SO ANNOYING WHEN YOU'RE ILL AND YOU CAN'T EVEN CONNECT WITH THE PEOPLE THAT MAKE YOU HAPPY FOR AS LONG AS YOU WANT TO FORGET ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE'S BULLSHIT AND YOU'RE TRYING TO FORGET ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE'S SHITTY COMMUNICATION SKILLS THAT MAKE YOU UPSET MOST OF THE TIME CUZ THEY DON'T KNOW HOW TO STOP THIS WHOLE BREATHING DOWN YOUR NECK SHENNANIGANS THAT HAPPEN WHEN PEOPLE TRY TO  USE ON YOU WHEN THEY'RE JUST TRYING TO LOOK OUT FOR YOU. ANYWAY I'LL STOP GETTING TOO PERSONAL RIGHT NOW AND GO BACK INTO THE GENERALISATION OF IT ALL SO I'LL BE LAYING DOWN SOME AWE-INSPIRING ADVICE SO GRAB YOUR FAVOURITE PAIR OF PJS/LOUNGEWEAR AND GRAB SOME PILLOWS AND FLUFFY BLANKETS AND SIT BACK AND RELAX AND LISTEN LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR 'WHEN YOU'RE GETTING A SUPPORT NETWORK OF LOVELY PEOPLE...

CANCER JOURNEY SO FAR

  IT ALL STARTED WITH A COUGH ON THE 2ND OF APRIL 2022 AND I WAS COUGHING LIKE NOBODIES BUSINESS AND MY MOM RANG 111 AND THEY TAKE SO LONG TO GET BACK TO YOU SO AT 9:00 IN THE EVENING THEY RANG BACK AND TOLD US TO GO TO THE MERLYN VAZ AT 2:30 IN THE MORNING AND MY MOM WAS LIKE YOU CAN GO DO ONE CUZ I'M NOT DOING THAT SO THEY SUGGESTED GOING TO THE A&E SO AT 10:00 SHE RANG A RANDOM TAXI COMPANY AND WE WENT TO THE A&E BUT HE WAS DRIVING QUITE ROUGHLY SO IT WAS A TERRIFYING JOURNEY TO THE HOSPITAL. WE GOT IN THE ADULT A&3 AND REGISTERED AND A REALLY FUNNY THING HAPPENED THE RECEPTIONIST THOUGHT MY MOM WAS THE PATIENT WHEN IT WAS ME AND SHE WAS LIKE NO IT'S FOR MY DAUGHTER. THEN i WENT INTO A ROOM AND GOT ASKED QUESTIONS ABOUT HOW URGENT IT WAS AND THE LADY WAS BEING SO RUDE AND IT WASN'T GREAT. THEN I HAD BLOOD PRESSURE AND BLOODS TAKEN AND A CANNULA PUT IN MY RIGHT ARM. AFTER THAT IT WAS A WAITING GAME AND WE SAT THERE IN THESE HORRIBLE UNCOMFORTABLE WAITING ROOM ...