LOADS OF POSITIVE VIBES RIGHT NOW BUT LET'S ROCK THIS CHAPTER WITH AWESOMENESS SO FIRST THINGS FIRST Y'ALL MIGHT BE DYING TO KNOW WHAT THIS WORD MEANS IT MEANS HAVING AND SHOWING CONFIDENCE AND SHOWING PERSONALITY TO YOUR FULLEST EXTENT SO NOW Y'ALL UNDERSTAND I'LL MAKE IT CRYSTAL CLEAR THAT SPEAKING UP FOR YOURSELF IS PART OF BEING ASSERTIVE SO IT'S NOT A BAD THING NOW I AM GOING TO WRITE DOWN THE WORDS OF WISDOM 'BEING ASSERTIVE IS A GREAT THING SO SHOW IT TO THOSE PEOPLE LWHO SHOW TRAITS OF MANIPULATION' ANYWAY IF YOU THINK THAT OTHERS WALK THE WALK OF POPULARITY THEN THAT IS NOT THE WAY OF ASSERTIVENESS IT IS BEING FIESTY AND SAYING WHAT YOU REALLY THINK ON THE INSIDE IT'S CALLED KNOWING HOW TO SPEAK UP AND IF OTHERS PUT YOU DOWN THEN 'WRECK THEM' BY SHOWING THEM YOU DON'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT THEM REALLY IT DON'T MATTER IF YOU'VE GOT AN ENEMY OR NOT I'VE LEARNT ONE THING SO LISTEN LOUDLY AND LISTEN PROPER 'SILENCE DOES NOTHING IT JUST KILLS ALL EMOTION ON THE INSIDE' SO LET THEM KNOW THAT YOU'RE NOT A PAWN TO BE PUSHED AROUND AND PLAYED THE GAME OF TEASING I MEAN IF YOU DON'T LIKE WHAT SOMEONE SAYS TO YOU THEN 'MAN UP' AND TELL THEM STRAGHT UP BECAUSE I'VE KNOWN SOMEONE WHO COULDN'T DO THIS BECAUSE OF THE WAY THAT THEY WERE BEING TREATED BY THEIR FRIENDS BAK IN HIGH SCHOOL SO I MADE IT AN OBLIGATION TO BEFREIND THEM SO YEAH I TAUGHT THIS PERSON ABOUT HOW TO PUT SOMEONE IN THEIR PLACE BUT THERE WAS A FEW LESSONS I LEARNT FROM THE ABOVE SCENARIO 'WHEN SOMEONE FALLS AND THEY CAN'T PICK THEMSELVES BACK UP THEN YOU BE THE ONE TO DO THAT FOR THEM NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS' AND NOW I KNOW THIS PRSON FOR SIX YEARS NOW SO YEAH SOMETHING GOOD CAME OUTTA THAT SCENARIO NOW I WILL STOP BLABBERING ON AND GIVE SOMEMORE ADVICE THAT CAN HIT A FEW CHORDS OF Y'ALLS INTEREST SO HERE GOES 'WHEN YOU DO BE ASSERTIVE IT DON'T MEAN THAT YOU'RE BEING RUDE IT'S JUST YOU PUTTING YOUR OPINION OUT THERE SO LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND KNOW THAT YOU ARE CONFIDENT AND OUTSPOKEN CUZ THERE IS A CERTAIN BEAUTY TO ASSERTIVENESS' AND IT GIVES YOU A BOOST OF POWER CUZ YOU'RE THE ONE WHO KINDA CALLS THE SHOTS WHEN YOU SAY THE WORDS TO MAKE A POINT BUT SOME SAY THAT THERE'S A TIME AND PLACE TO BE ASSERTIVE BUT YOU CAN AGREE OR DISAGREE WITH THIS BUT IT'S A KINDA STRAIGHT FORWARD THING SO I'LL JUST LAY DOWN SOME MORE PICES OF ADVICE THAT Y'ALL ARE DYING TO PICK UP SO 'WHEN YOU HEAR REAL INSULTS BEING FIRED AT YOU DON'TSTAY SILENT TAKE ACTION EVEN IF IT MEANS GOING EXTREME AND USING YOUR FISTS INSTEAD OF WORDS' BUT DON'T USE YOUR FISTS ALL THE TIME THOUGH IT'S NOT THE BEST TYPE OF COMMUNICATION OF EMOTIONS ANYWAY THE WHOLE IDEA OF ASSERTIVENESS IS TO SAY WHAT YOU KEEP HIDDEN IN YOUR MIND BUT YOU JUST NEED TO HAVE A 'FILTER' THIS WORD HAS BEEN HEARD FROM SOMEWHERE AND YOU CAN JUST 'GO WITH THE FLOW' AS I'VE SAID MANY TIMES IN PREVIOUS CHAPTERS SO CARRYING ON WITH WHAT I'M SAYING NOW 'YOU NOTICE THE LITTLE THINGS THAT PEOPLE DO EVERYDAY WHEN YOU COMMUNICATE WITH THEM BUT IF SOMEONE MESSES WITH THEIR FLOW THEN YOU HELP THEM TO SPEAK UP AND FACE THE OBSTACLES IN FRONT OF THEM' SO I KNOW THIS WAS A LOTTA INFO TO TAKE IN BUT IF YOU WANNA KNOW HOW IT'S DONE THEN Y'ALL CAN LISTEN TO THIS OR NOT ANYWAY WHEN BEING ASSERTIVE BE THE TRUEST PERSON THAT YOU ARE IN REAL LIFE AND JUST CRASH ALL THEM FORCEFIELDS OF INVISIBILITY DOWN TIL YOU ARE SEEN IN A TRUE LIGHT BUT I WILL ELABORATE ON THE SUBJECT OF INVISIBILITY IN ANOTHER CHAPTER AND IT WILL BE LONG SO HOLD ON DON'T DISAPPEAR ANYWHERE SO I WILL NOW PUT DOWN MORE OF MY WORDS OF VALUABLE ADVICE ' HAVE NO FEAR WHEN YOU SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF TO OTHERS BUT FEAR SHOULDN'T SHUT YOU DOWN IT SHOULD WAKE YOU UP' I KNOW I JUST QUOTED THAT FROM DIVERGENT BUT IT'S A LINE WHICH HOLDS LOADS OF DEEP MEANING SO I WOULD JUST LIKE TO SAY THAT ASSERTIVENESS IS A WAY TO GET ALL THE BOTTLED UP WORDS THAT YOU DON'T SAY EVERYDAY OUT IN THE OPEN SOMETIMES BECAUSE YOU GOTTA KEEP THE FILTER IN MIND SO THAT'S THAT NOW I WILL STOP TALKING WAY OUT OF SUBJECT AND GIVE OUT MORE WORDS OF VALUE SO HERE GOES 'ASSERTIVENESS IS NOT JUST ABOUT HAVING A LOUD PERSONALITY IT'S ABOUT BUILDING UP ALL YOUR INNER CONFIDENCE SO YOU OPEN UP TO MORE PEOPLE AND DON'T FALL BACK DOWN IN THE CHASM OF DARKNESS AND NOT EXPLODE INTO BILLIONS OF SHARDS OF RED HOT RAGE' YEAH I KNOW IT'S A LITTLE WEIRD BUT WEIRD IS GOOD NOT BAD I MEAN IT'S GOOD TO JUST 'THINK OUTSIDE OF THE BOX' RIGHT IT'S LIKE PUTTING YOURSELF OUT THERE AND USING THE WOWNESS OF EXPRESSION WHICH ALLOWS YOU TO PUT ALL YOUR EMOTION INTO WORD FORM FOR EXAMPLE YOU WRITE EVERYTHING ON THE PAGE BUT IN REAL LIFE YOU DON'T SAY A LOT SO YEAH JUST AIM HIGH AND SAY WHAT YOU GOTTA SAY TO MAKE PEOPLE ACCEPT YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU'RE GONNA DO TO PROVE THEM WRONG SO YEAH BE HEADSTRONG AND KEEP TELLING IT LIKE IT IS AND OWN THE SPOTLIGHT OF ASSERTIVENESS SO NOW I'LL BE SIGNING OFF
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