BRATTY PEOPLE TAKING THEIR STRESS OUT ON YOU

 Hey Grey's Anatomy Fans,

The ultimate teenage phase of being high-and-mighty, where they look down on you, and treat you like a kid. They think they're the adult in a situation 'cause they're so mature and you're not. Try and do something crazy/weird, while your parental is telling you something, and the teenager butts into your business makes you feel shame and sadness that attacks you on the inside with the whirlpool of anxiety. You try to escape the situation, but the person follows you into your sanctuary that is your room. Then you find yourself whispering all the things you can't say out loud, and you get contradicted about it and get told to say it louder, but you don't wanna do that 'cause it'll cause more damage and the wildfire of ruckus will keep spreading until you're inhaling the smoke of panic. So, you're asking the ultimate question why am I getting character bashed when I've been nothing, but nice to this person for a solid week? Another question, which strikes you is- Why am I getting sucked into the thicket of drama when I've not made the person feel uncomfortable or awkward this time around in my house that is Hotel 65?

Okay, I've rambled on for ages. I'll lay down the jaw-dropping/mind-boggling advice that'll make you think about these questions that have been proposed. I get it; we're all seeking answers to the questions in the drawers at the back of our minds. Sit back, and relax against those pillow/blanket forts. Slide into your favourite pair of loungewear/PJ's/hoodie's and joggers/kaftans/T-shirts and shorts. Grab some Blazin' Bird to munch on if you're a lunchtime person. Listen loud and crystal clear:

'If you're in a situation where you're ganged up on, and you've not got anyone on your side, and you know that no one's gonna have your back cuz the person who's butted in on your telling off get's some type of special treatment because they've not got a stable situation in their own lives, you've gotta question it when you're the one getting the verbal discipline. Then you're sitting there not getting the apology you deserve it's a bit suss. You gotta demand some kind of explanation as to why you were digging the ditch to the quicks and of trouble.'

Whoa! That was some heavy advice to digest. Being over-anxious, and panicked whether you're a good person in this situation/whether you're good enough because a person who's having a hard time makes you slightly smaller than you wanna feel shouldn't be kept inside the vault of silence. It should be spoken about out in the open. It's perfectly normal to be moving water away from an electronic device cuz you've got the fear that you've looked after it for so long, and it'll get ruined by water. Yeah, you'll look dumb or a freak of nature, cuz you're not listening to the person telling you to leave it dangerously close to the device. Anything can happen in a split second. 

OOH! I got a bit passionate there, and rambled a little bit. I'll get back to giving y'all some awesome, mind-boggling advice. Sit back, and relax against those fluffy pillows and blankets. Slide into your go-to footwear/chucks/trainers/fluffy socks/fuzzy slippers/sliders/crocs/heels/boots. Grab some hot tea to slurp. Listen loud and crystal clear:

'It's upsetting when you think about it, 'cause you've had such a fun time with this person. Then they put you down by telling you the things about yourself that make you question your personality. You're trying to move on and 'get over it,' you can't do that in a day. It takes a long time to process it. You'll question why the person had to turn the positive environment on it's axis, and make you lash out when you're a calm person most of the time. It's okay to go into that spiral for a little bit, but you have to come out of it stronger than ever no matter what happens next.'

Sheesh! That was a huge chunk of heavier advice. You'll see the parental apologising to a 1 month old baby, and you'll think 'I want that so badly. To know I'm a good human being, and I've scooped all the shit that's hit the fan, back into the toilet bowl, and I've moved on amicably/ got my relationship back on a positive track with my favourite person in this entire world. Everyone has terrible problems and experiences, but we shouldn't take it out on people by doing the whole telling a person how their flaws are affecting a person, just let them be perfectly imperfect. Sometimes a person just wants to be left alone in a personal space bubble for a bit, and the other person has to accept this.

Yeesh! I just rambled on for ages now. I will give y'all some awesome, out-of-this-world advice. Sit back and relax against those fluffy blankets, and pillows. Slide into your favourite pair of loungewear/PJ's/kaftans/hoodies, and joggers/T-shirts and jeans. Grab some cookie dough to munch on. Listen loud and crystal clear:

'It's maddening and frustrating not being on the same page with a person when you've got different ideas. When you're getting help fixing a device, and you're getting told about being frustrated while trying to explain what needs to be fixed/how it works. You get panicked and flip your lid, it's a normal reaction, yes a person has their own issues, you have to voice your concern about them keeping it stuck inside the void that is the mind sometimes. A person can be stuck in an experience, they shouldn't be bringing the experience to you if it's messy or complicated when you're trying to keep the peace.'

Wow. Some cool as a cucumber advice. Being on the outside while a person is struggling, and then coming into your ruckus that you're creating should tell you there's a mini hurricane raging inside that person, and they might not know how to express it normally. It's OK, but not OK at the same time. It makes you take a few steps back in the progress of being sane and calm, while doing your CBT (Cognitive behavioural therapies), where the breathing exercises are there to keep you from going too deep into the spiral of anxieties that you've broken out of. You've had the time to figure out who you're gonna be, the better/more improved version of yourself comes out from underneath the substance over style thing that you've being hiding behind. The shield comes down a few inches until it goes right back up again.

Whoa. I've rambled for time now. I'll give you one last piece of advice. Sit back and relax against those makeshift caves you've made. Slide into your go-to merch T-shirts from shows etc. Grab some pudding or cake to gobble. Listen loud and crystal clear:

'You can't go crawling back into your protective shell or skin when you crash into the ditches of trouble you're digging. You have to stand up for yourself, and be strong while listening to the bucket of cold hard reality that comes your way. Agree to disagree with a person who's younger than you. Make sure you don't clam up and say the thing that's on your mind. Don't be afraid to get into it if you're not being chill with a person.'

Geez Louise. Some awesome words of wisdom there. I'll leave y'all to chew on that, plus myself. I'll give you a quote that goes along the lines of:

'If you don't know the situation, then you don't have a right to have an opinion.'- Pinterest.

Enjoy Reading.

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